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Why so FREAKING PETTY!

tiredoftrying's picture

So tired of all this stupid insecure evil crap. I try to be nice yet i am left frustrated wondering why do i even try. Every time i am around her i feel like she is competing with me and i am not even trying to be on that level. I bring my stepkid her child to events with her family even if its his time to be with us (drop them off) and yet she and her family make a point to try and make me feel as awkward as possible by making me feel like i am owe them an explanation of who i am. No i am not answering your questions that are only information to fuel your gossip wheel and you just generally being nosey! Then when that doesnt work here comes the low blows, sending jabs verbally just to see how i will react.No we are not officially married but i am well taken care of as are our kids.further more for all intense purpose we are married everything is joint.Yes this is a 3 carat diamond ring on my finger so i am his fiance not his baby mamma not his girlfriend cut that shat out!!!! Why are you so concern what i am mix with no i am not all black and it doesnt mean i am less of a woman. Maybe you just didn't know how to play your part correctly that has nothing to do with race. I am a grown a** woman what do you think i am just going to act ignorant to give you a tinge of pleasure. Why are they so mad because i am the only one they couldn't get rid of that his family likes me that i treat my step kid like my own i only use step right now so people reading this can know what i am talking about because i really feel like the kid is mine. You talk about my man like you wish he was still banging your daughter HES NOT HASNT BEEN FOR A WHILE GET OVER IT. dID I MENTION SHES ALREADY REMARRIED don't you think her/your current husband sees how you act maybe your behavior makes him uncomfortable too. Stop texting and emailing my husband random things that have nothing to do with your kid. Did i mention this is not a competion why are you constantly trying to act like you are besties with his people they already told me they never liked you and you know what i still tell people you are not that bad that you are nice even though deep inside i think you are an insecure selfish petty delusional and disrespectul person who measrure them selves by how much better they think they are from others oooooooooooooooh my gawd that felt so good to vent hallelujah

Disneyfan's picture

Why do you keep going around people who treat you this way? Make dad take her to those events. If he can't, then she'll just have to miss out.

tiredoftrying's picture

Why can't we be civil? I didnt steal him form her,they were long divorced and she remarried before I ever came into the picture. No I don't expect she and I to be best friends but a simple drop off and pick up should not be that hard.If you don't like me that's fine but keep your rude comment and snide behavior to your self.At the end of the day it's about the kids feeling secure in both homes and okay with loving both sides.I will however not take him any longer because as sad as it is your post are the same as my sisters thoughts:).
She just does things that are so irrational. Just this past week she randomly decided to pick up SS at our home and didnt bother to call my fianc'e first (he was at work). So not only am I placed in an awkard position I can't say no you can't have your son, but her mother is with her. Her mother tells me she heard we finally set a date and hopes they will be invited to the wedding infront of my SS and his exwife says that would be the godly thing to do! I stand there shocked because why did the both of you feel the need to come to the doorstep.I don't know if they expected to come in but I told them he would be out in just a second and closed the door. Later on fiance got into a big fight and she says well maybe if she would have invited me in I wouldn't have taken him. What sense does that make? Sometimes I really wish i wont even say what i wish some times Sad

mom2boys's picture

some people are just incapable of trying to be civil and dwell on family drama.