I met my boyfriend four years ago at an outdoor concert, we hit it off from the very get go. We have all the same interests, we spend no time apart. Weekends come and we don't even questions what to do, we just know we will be together picking berries, camping, hunting, fishing, fourwheeling, anything as long as we are together. He has every wed night dinner with kids son (16) and daughter (12). Then every other weekend. I have my two girls (10) & (8) full time, they spend every other weekend with their dad. Their dad and I get along great, no problems! His kid's mom has hated me from the very start, she once told the kids it was because I didn't say hi to her the first time we met? I honestly don't even remember her saying anything to me? The kids have always expressed that she didn't like me, I tried to keep my mouth shut and not say a whole lot, but then her comments crossed major boundaries! She filed a harrassment/no contact order and the courts denied it. Now recently their son (16) told her that he hates me because I demand his dad. I simply have rules that I expect all four kids to abide by? She won't quit sending texts to their dad that just degrades him as a father, and says that if he would spend some time alone with their son then maybe he would know that he hates me and that he nevers talks or spends time with his kids. But in my defense, we only have our children together two weekends a month and want to spend that time together, when they come over for dinner on weds. we enjoy sitting down at the table and eating together, she refuses any extra time with the kids? Is this wrong?