She's Crazy
Last night, my mind was blown.
SD's grandma (BM's Mom) was set to fly in but BM got called in for work so she changed her flights....
The cell phone rings... my husband silences it. But it doesn't stop, it sits and vibrates as she's called 7 times since silencing. He finally answers thinking something might be wrong. She explains that her mom was unable to change her plane ticket and will be in town earlier than she will be coming back from work. She then proceeds to ask if her mom could stay at our house a couple nights til she gets home.
ARE YOU SERIOUS???????
I DON'T EVER CALL AND ASK ANYTHING OF MY EX BOYFRIEND, LET ALONE IF MY FAMILY CAN COME HAVE A SLEEP OVER AT HIS HOUSE!!!!
I was so relieved when he laughed and said "No."
She then says, "Well, what am I going to do?"
He says, "It's not my problem, tell her to get a hotel room, like anyone else would."
I'm just flabbergasted that she would think to ask if her mom could stay with us. How awkward would that be????
Just had to vent.....
OMG...that totally sounds
OMG...that totally sounds like crap my fiancees bm would do.. SHe calls all the time asking him to do shit at her house or help her with something like he owes her something... She F***ing nuts.
It is weird but..... If my
It is weird but..... If my exH were to ask me if his mom could stay (which his mother wouldn't allow anyway because she would get a hotel or stay at a friends) I would let her #1 I love my exmil, she loves me and I have sole custody of her grandkids and i live in her old house she sold me and my ex grew up in. I'm sure SO would be uncomfortable (she also thinks he's great but hasn't met him just from talking to me on the phone she's glad the kids and I are happy and well treated) and we'd discuss it if I really thought it was necessary but I wouldn't make him let her.
I doubt most people have such a relationship with their ex IL's I love mine they love me and their grandkids I divorced their son not them. I probably would say no just case I don't think I'd of wanted her staying here when I was married to her son so now? Not likely just awkward and weird.
Looked like a good
Looked like a good opportunity to have BM in his pocket when a big favor was needed. What goes around comes around. Just saying you can keep a fight going or you can shake the hand offered.
Silly rabbit, BMs don't
Silly rabbit, BMs don't return favors. We are all supposed to do whatever she asks and like, she however owes us nothing.
^^^^ so true!
^^^^ so true!
Oh my, I cannot ever imagine.
Oh my, I cannot ever imagine. Really? No? How clueless are these women? Are they clueless or crazy? Or do they just really have some balls? Oh my...
My response unfortunately would be "no BM, your mom can't come to our home...sadly, I'm afraid she'd sneak into our room and jump DH since she's jumped every other man in your town..." lol :sick: