How old is to old? I have a bs8; but I feel she will be developing soon and it's making me uncomfortable for her walking around in just her panties when everyone else is dressed.
Given what you said in your last post about her, I'm thinking she's not just walking around like that, she's strutting her stuff. Has anybody gotten her any help yet? Please tell me you haven't moved in with her and her father ...
Yes, 8 is WAY too old to be walking around nearly naked.
I never walked around my parents' home as a kid in underwear, what's with these kids? She's 8, tell her to go put clothes on. DH never even let SS walk around without a shirt on in the house, much less in his underwear. No need, put some clothes on, no one wants to see that.
I read your last post, too. Something is very wrong with this little girl. What is her life like at BMs? What is BM like? I am afraid the girl is being abused somewhere, or at the very least being exposed to some pretty sick stuff for a child to see. If it isn't BM, or someone else, and your DH is dismissing your concerns and letting a child almost old enough to have her period walk around in just panties, can you be sure it isn't your DH?
I HAVE A SD 7 WHO ALSO REFUSES TO PUT ON CLOTHES! I know that she wants to be comfortable in her home, but running around naked in front of people who aren't family isn't normal. I've tried to reinforce this, and like if her BM was dating someone who was like "yeah, run naked! Be free!" it would not be a red flag, it would be a RED BILLBOARD. Put. On. A. Damn. Shirt!
And I agree that with your past post this kid sounds unwell and needs help. If you haven't moved in already, DONT.
Some families are comfortable with nakedness but when you add steps into the mix, it's no longer okay, just part of the issues with no longer having an intact family. I wouldn't be comfortable with her doing that in front of your son and who knows if she does that in front of BMs bfs. Also from your last post, I suspect some kind of sexual abuse here.
Sd8 walking around in underwear
How old is to old? I have a bs8; but I feel she will be developing soon and it's making me uncomfortable for her walking around in just her panties when everyone else is dressed.
Given what you said in your
Given what you said in your last post about her, I'm thinking she's not just walking around like that, she's strutting her stuff. Has anybody gotten her any help yet? Please tell me you haven't moved in with her and her father ...
Yes, 8 is WAY too old to be walking around nearly naked.
Kids need to be clothed
Kids need to be clothed
I never walked around my
I never walked around my parents' home as a kid in underwear, what's with these kids? She's 8, tell her to go put clothes on. DH never even let SS walk around without a shirt on in the house, much less in his underwear. No need, put some clothes on, no one wants to see that.
I read your last post, too.
I read your last post, too. Something is very wrong with this little girl. What is her life like at BMs? What is BM like? I am afraid the girl is being abused somewhere, or at the very least being exposed to some pretty sick stuff for a child to see. If it isn't BM, or someone else, and your DH is dismissing your concerns and letting a child almost old enough to have her period walk around in just panties, can you be sure it isn't your DH?
NO NO NO
I HAVE A SD 7 WHO ALSO REFUSES TO PUT ON CLOTHES! I know that she wants to be comfortable in her home, but running around naked in front of people who aren't family isn't normal. I've tried to reinforce this, and like if her BM was dating someone who was like "yeah, run naked! Be free!" it would not be a red flag, it would be a RED BILLBOARD. Put. On. A. Damn. Shirt!
And I agree that with your past post this kid sounds unwell and needs help. If you haven't moved in already, DONT.
Some families are comfortable
Some families are comfortable with nakedness but when you add steps into the mix, it's no longer okay, just part of the issues with no longer having an intact family. I wouldn't be comfortable with her doing that in front of your son and who knows if she does that in front of BMs bfs. Also from your last post, I suspect some kind of sexual abuse here.