we have SS6 every other WEEK... I wish it was just everyother weekend!! she has him a week then the brats here a week... he goes to each place from school on Fridays... (thats the good part, no interaction with the BM)
DH has SD8 on the first, third and fifth weekends of the month although she hasn't been coming that 'often' because behavioral issues when she's here and an erratic work/school schedule (for DH) that leaves me responsible solely for SD8 when she's here and that doesn't make for a good visit for anyone.
3 weeks a year - yeah - but for the first 3 years 49 weeks of the year - I have to say I like the 3 weeks a year better - }:) He is graduating next year and I think that he will be living with us while he goes to college.
I see them daily when my husband picks them up from school and they get picked up and go home at 7pm during the week. We also have them everyother weekend. We had full custody before Mom was granted her custody back.I miss them even though they hate me.
1 week over xmas break
1 week for spring break
5 weeks or so during the summer
and my So goes to see her (SD10) for a long weekend in October.
i think i would prefer more visits for shorter periods of time...
everytime she comes to ur hosue it takes days to start acting normal....
really only the summer visit is the one where we finally get comfy with eachother.. and then start wanting to kill eachother. haha
I have been a step mom for 12 years and we used to have her every weekend; half the summer and holidays........Until she got to hard for her BM last year - now she is with FULL TIME..............YEAH!!
Now we won some more time with her.. so eowe Fri-Sun 7PM and Wedn from 5-7pm. So there's a week gap after the weekend we have her we see her wedn and from that wedn we get her the following wednesday.
Every other weekend, Tuesday overnights, sometimes Wednesday (if he doesn't go to daycare)and Thursdays until 7:30...I'm hoping it gets cut back when he goes to school bc he is in a different district than my bios so theres no way to get him on a bus and I will be damned if we pay for before school care every Wednesay morning!
Pretty much the same as other folks have said...Every other weekend (Fri thru Mon morning, DH takes them to school).
We're SUPPOSED to have them Monday night as well & DH take them to school on Tuesday mornings, but she has requested a ransom of an extra $6,000.00 on top of our $1,500.00/month child support to be paid before June (just for that ONE extra day), SO needless to say, DH can't have them as much as he'd like to. Thank god.
OMG :jawdrop: reading from your posts it seems like BM is manipulating the situation and turning days into money. 6k for one day? She is nobody to decide on that!
We have the kids every other
We have the kids every other weekend and 2 nights during the week for a few hours
Well, i guess every other
Well, i guess every other weekend. But if they want to come over extra they do.
The summer is usually up in the air which is annoying. They will come for a couple weeks at a time. I think I'm going to have to work a lot.
we have SS6 every other
we have SS6 every other WEEK... I wish it was just everyother weekend!! she has him a week then the brats here a week... he goes to each place from school on Fridays... (thats the good part, no interaction with the BM)
DH has SD8 on the first,
DH has SD8 on the first, third and fifth weekends of the month although she hasn't been coming that 'often' because behavioral issues when she's here and an erratic work/school schedule (for DH) that leaves me responsible solely for SD8 when she's here and that doesn't make for a good visit for anyone.
Every day except 6-8 weeks in
Every day except 6-8 weeks in the summer, & 12/26-1/1.
3 weeks a year - yeah - but
3 weeks a year - yeah - but for the first 3 years 49 weeks of the year - I have to say I like the 3 weeks a year better - }:) He is graduating next year and I think that he will be living with us while he goes to college.
I see them daily when my
I see them daily when my husband picks them up from school and they get picked up and go home at 7pm during the week. We also have them everyother weekend. We had full custody before Mom was granted her custody back.I miss them even though they hate me.
Thankfully only about every
Thankfully only about every other week or so. I need the 2 wks in between to recover lol.
3 days a week, and every
3 days a week, and every other weekend. It is exactly 50/50. Wish it was more.
hahahahaha well said
hahahahaha well said
1 week over xmas break 1 week
1 week over xmas break
1 week for spring break
5 weeks or so during the summer
and my So goes to see her (SD10) for a long weekend in October.
i think i would prefer more visits for shorter periods of time...
everytime she comes to ur hosue it takes days to start acting normal....
really only the summer visit is the one where we finally get comfy with eachother.. and then start wanting to kill eachother. haha
I have been a step mom for 12
I have been a step mom for 12 years and we used to have her every weekend; half the summer and holidays........Until she got to hard for her BM last year - now she is with FULL TIME..............YEAH!!
Now we won some more time
Now we won some more time with her.. so eowe Fri-Sun 7PM and Wedn from 5-7pm. So there's a week gap after the weekend we have her we see her wedn and from that wedn we get her the following wednesday.
Every other weekend, Tuesday
Every other weekend, Tuesday overnights, sometimes Wednesday (if he doesn't go to daycare)and Thursdays until 7:30...I'm hoping it gets cut back when he goes to school bc he is in a different district than my bios so theres no way to get him on a bus and I will be damned if we pay for before school care every Wednesay morning!
Pretty much the same as other
Pretty much the same as other folks have said...Every other weekend (Fri thru Mon morning, DH takes them to school).
We're SUPPOSED to have them Monday night as well & DH take them to school on Tuesday mornings, but she has requested a ransom of an extra $6,000.00 on top of our $1,500.00/month child support to be paid before June (just for that ONE extra day), SO needless to say, DH can't have them as much as he'd like to. Thank god.
OMG reading from your posts
OMG :jawdrop: reading from your posts it seems like BM is manipulating the situation and turning days into money. 6k for one day? She is nobody to decide on that!