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My Husband Mistreats me and expects me to take care of his kids

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Submitted by Iamlosingbloods... on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 6:52pm

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Well I married with three daughters now 17,15,and 9...That was mistake number one,Mistake number two he wasn't over his first relationship,so his ex wife is a cheater so he continues to say that I am even thouh,I've never cheated in any of my past relationships,not to mention him and I have a child together.

So anyway let me speed this up,my husband and I live a couple states from his kids we get them every holiday,and break from school...the problem is...he has called me a whore,corrected me in front of his kids,tries to threaten to take my child with,him,and is verbally and mentally abusive. His kids,stirred something up one time he called his ex up and cussed her out,and his kids said she deserved it.When my child was first born he,complained about buying formula and made me and my baby get out late because he was already dressed for bed. He threatens to leave,and has told me to leave...

So should I be watching his kids..???

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Submitted by Stormyweather on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 7:05pm

the problem is...he has called me a whore

Fuck me....you lost me here!!

My arse and my child would be gone...

eat my dust loser.

And your problem is???

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Submitted by SugarSpice on Tue, 12/30/2014 - 12:19am

name calling is a form of abuse. look it up.

agree with dtzyblnd on this. leave before you get in too deep.

i waited too long to understand what was going on. dont make my mistake.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 7:32pm

This man treats you like yesterday's trash. But instead of seeking ways to get away from, you wanted to knowmif you should watch his kids. :? :sick:

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 7:33pm

****

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 7:38pm

If this is even a real post.........

Get your ass (and your baby) to a women's shelter now.

He was already abusing you and you had a kid with him??

Find a job, divorce your H and move on with your life.

He can threaten to take the baby away all he wants, just remember he doesn't have custody of his other kids.

And BTW....sounds like his kids are as abusive as your H.

Get out now. Why are you even asking an idiotic question about watching his kids when you have all of this other shit going on??

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 7:44pm

I have to agree with you on this one.

So many problems in the world, why do people feel the need to invent them?

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Submitted by Glassslipper on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 8:12pm

I agree, if this post is real, LEAVE. If it's not...my handcuffs are not pink and fuzzy either Sad they are police issues Smith&Wesson. Oh the fun! Lol

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Submitted by hereiam on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 9:10pm

Well, OP, I hope you got the answer to your question. Basically, go forth and be the whore that your husband wants you to be (watching the kids is totally up to you).

I do hope you will come back for more advice; we have plenty more where this came from.

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Submitted by luvmykidsmore on Mon, 12/29/2014 - 9:17pm

You should leave with your child. He's using emotional blackmail. He thinks the threat of abandonment will prevent you from leaving despite the abuse. LEAVE.