Just call me the babysitter...
Un-fing believable. DH is moved out of the house but we have been talking occassionally on the phone because there are some logistics that we need to work out (when will he have his own place to get the rest of stuff out of the garage, etc). Apparnetly the Sbrats (which they will now be referred to) had visitation at DH's employers vacation home in their town since they aren't welcome here. DH had a "talk" with SS12 for calling me the "c" word and told him that as long as he wanted to act that way, he couldn't come to our house. DH hasn't told the Sbrats that we are getting divorced and he moved out. Most likely so he won't have to hear BM's joy and probably because he expects me to take him back. Anyways, SS12 had a MELTDOWN over this that involved screaming, crying, and locking himself in a bedroom for an hour. DH told me this like I was going to feel SORRY for SS12. Ummmm, no. The only reason those kids care about coming here is because its like a fun little vacation for them. No more.
Anyways, DH has been giving me all kinds of crap about how his kids aren't welcome at the house. YES -and neither are you, except for a night here or there, if he doesn't have anywhere else to go before he finds a house. Just because I am being over the top nice letting him use the guest room once or twice a month, does not mean those brats get to come over AT ALL. Then I find out the real issue - BM has a week long "conference" to go to. Funny, I don't remember $12 an hour, part time secretaries going to week long conferences, but I guess she is really indispensible (snort). She wants him to take both boys that week - to MY house. DH doesn't have anywhere to take them for that week so obviously thats my problem. When pigs fly DH, when pigs fly. I am NOT your skanky, broke, stupid BM's babysitter.
lol I would take a week
lol I would take a week vacation that week and SIT ON MY BEHIND AT HOME just to make a point lol of course, not letting any of them in your home...haha
bahahaha!
bahahaha!
lol - I work from home 90% of
lol - I work from home 90% of the time so DH knows I'll be around. The Sbrats spent a week with us at Christmas and I took the week off. It was LITERALLY an entire week of cleaning and cooking for them while they sat on their butts playing on the computer and watching TV. DH is HIGH if he thinks I doing that again to make BM's life easier and after the Sbrats have talked all KINDS of crazy nastiness about me and to me. When I told DH that I can't imagine why they would even want to come here so bad if I am so horrible - he says (in a completely martyred voice) "to spend time with ME". Great - they can spend time with you elsewhere. When they are over here, they barely spend a waking moment with DH. They are too busy with video games and the computer. We literally don't see BM's horrible nephew for days at a time.
Good for you! You are not
Good for you! You are not their parent, they treat you like crap - it is not up to you to put them up for a week. Good girl! You are a smart cookie!
Cool. He gets to spend a
Cool. He gets to spend a week with his kids in a hotel room. If the kids are lucky, he'll book one with a nice pool.
lol - that was my thought
lol - that was my thought too, but DH is too broke and cheap to do that. There are some not so nice "cabins" for $50 a night in their town. Maybe he can rent those - lol - the Sbrats are NOT going to be happy about that. They are already talking to him (I heard them) about taking the computer that I bought DH - and am not giving to him since he owes me so much money for support and job materials that I stupidly paid. Hopefully, he'll do what he use to do before we met - stay at his old house while BN is out banging anyone in a 30 mile radius. Talk about SAD - babysitting at your old house so your ex can go out and spread venareal disease. If he does that, it will make our break up that much easier.
That's exactly what I was
That's exactly what I was thinking!!
You are absolutely right.
You are absolutely right. Under NO circumstances do you take any of them in for that week. Just tell him 'I'm sorry for your troubles 'n' all but I am not having any of you stay under such spurious circumstances.
Talk about having cake and eating it too? Hell's teeth he has some audacity.
why cant he stay at the BM
why cant he stay at the BM house when she is gone?
I guess technically he could
I guess technically he could - except that I doubt she'll want him there. Although, now that I am out of the picture,thats probably exactly what will happen so they can go back to their f'ed up dynamic - where she uses him as her personal babysitter and home repairman. I put a stop to that once we got married and holy hell - I still have to hear about the carpet she wants him to put into her bedroom. It will be inconvenient for me to be gone, no matter how much she hates me, but she'll recover and DH can go back to having his entire life run by BM and the Sbrats.
Quit answering the phone
Quit answering the phone until after that week has passed.
No need to worry, I am not
No need to worry, I am not answering his calls and I've already told him that his kids are f'ing brats that treat him and me like crap, use people to get what they want (learned from BM who sleeps with just about anyone for car repairs and used computers), and he is doing them no favors allowing them to act the way they do. Who the hell allows their 17 year old daughter to post nasty stuff about them on Facebook, gets all her mothers trashy friends to join in, and the buys her a new laptop and $100 backpack without ever talking about it with her or asking for an apology. Those kids aren't going to be able to function working at McDonald's, let alone the real world.
Have a friend or relative who
Have a friend or relative who is not working that week, or who works from home and can base themselves with you, preferably a male, stay the week. Change locks. If and when your ex and skids show, that person can answer the door and say that your ex no longer lives there and is not welcome there. That way you can continue to work from home in peace.
lol, to make matters even
lol, to make matters even better, DH doesn't have a drivers license right now (DUI in September) so he can't drive the Sbrats anywhere. Doesn't he sounds like an amazing package deal? They live an hour away and he knows how pissed I am so there is no way he'll come over here. I almost wish he would so I could throw all three of them out.
Tell him to buy some camping
Tell him to buy some camping gear and spend some quality time with them. Then he can continue to live in the tent until he finds accomodations.
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