Time for the SD13 to come back for a week... I am trying to be positive... but we shall see... She is a drama queen, who tends to pick on my kids and argues that the sky is not blue... I am going to need a severe vacation this summer... Last summer I left my husband with the SD13 and SD15 and took my children and myself to Missouri for a five day breather... it was GREAT!!!!!!! Call me selfish but I think every step-parent needs a moment...