Me too! Sneaky doesn't even begin to describe my SD12. Even in situations where there's no reason to be sneaky, this kid will creep around the house. For example, she will crawl on all fours down the hallway and quietly open the towel closet. The moment she sees me, she freezes and stares directly at me like a deer in headlights. So I stare back then walk away. DH asks wtf was she doing and she makes some shit up, like she was looking for her toothbrush. Who crawls on their hands & knees looking for a toothbrush in a freaking towel closet?!
I can't even count down the days till she's ever gone because we have her fulltime forever because BM has no intention of ever coming to get her, even for a day or a weekend. I'd be thrilled with just one summer of peace and normalcy.
What is it with BMs and their lack of mothering skills? I dare say your skid is sneaky ( aka fucked in the head) based on feeling abandoned by her own mother. These feelings run deep and manifest in ways that's weird. Well, that's my take on things.
Our BM put a restraining order on her own son ( after abandoning her own son so many times beforehand) and whilst there's actual peace now ( no manipulations from her) the pain manifests in SS15 in weird ways. I swear the lad has a dormant narssassistic personality disorder... Just like his mother. So she raises him and then dumps him when she dosent want him and we have him FT 24/7 without a break. I don't blame him... In fact I feel for him but gee it's hard work!
Ahahahaha, glad to know I'm
Ahahahaha, glad to know I'm not the only one who counts down hours. Once I was like 146 hours to go....
Me too! Sneaky doesn't even
Me too! Sneaky doesn't even begin to describe my SD12. Even in situations where there's no reason to be sneaky, this kid will creep around the house. For example, she will crawl on all fours down the hallway and quietly open the towel closet. The moment she sees me, she freezes and stares directly at me like a deer in headlights. So I stare back then walk away. DH asks wtf was she doing and she makes some shit up, like she was looking for her toothbrush. Who crawls on their hands & knees looking for a toothbrush in a freaking towel closet?!
I can't even count down the days till she's ever gone because we have her fulltime forever because BM has no intention of ever coming to get her, even for a day or a weekend. I'd be thrilled with just one summer of peace and normalcy.
The idea of this 12 year old
The idea of this 12 year old crawling around is creepy as Hell! Like something from a horror movie.
I never thought of
I never thought of that---Love It!! Thanks!
And it never helps that the
And it never helps that the people who try to be sneaky are never smart enough to get away with it...
What is it with BMs and their
What is it with BMs and their lack of mothering skills? I dare say your skid is sneaky ( aka fucked in the head) based on feeling abandoned by her own mother. These feelings run deep and manifest in ways that's weird. Well, that's my take on things.
Our BM put a restraining order on her own son ( after abandoning her own son so many times beforehand) and whilst there's actual peace now ( no manipulations from her) the pain manifests in SS15 in weird ways. I swear the lad has a dormant narssassistic personality disorder... Just like his mother. So she raises him and then dumps him when she dosent want him and we have him FT 24/7 without a break. I don't blame him... In fact I feel for him but gee it's hard work!