So my husband JUST had mediation with his ex wife 10 days ago. They agreed on almost everything. The mediator filed the report and sent it out to the lawyers, and the final court date is January 2nd.

One of the things SHE wanted to change was pick up Christmas morning from 8am to 9am. So that is listed in the report:

"Mother gets children from pickup 9am to the last day of Christmas break at 5pm on which the father shall pick up the children from the mother's home."

The only thing that changed was the 8am to 9am.

BUT this morning she shows up at 9am, leaves with the kids, then starts calling the house phone and my husband's cell phone. AND she was dumb enough to leave a voicemail message on my husband's phone saying something like this:

"I am pulling in your driveway to get the kids backpacks because I get to take them to school. Don't make me have to involve law enforcement to get this done."

She then comes and bangs on our front door.
I told my husband not to answer it, but he does. ( and was actually quite civil and even tempered)
She states that she needs the kids backpacks that she is supposed to take them to school.
He responds that in fact she does not and he will pick them up January 5th at 5pm, the day before school starts that that is what was agreed upon in mediation.
She disagrees.
By this time I've got the mediator's report of everything which was discussed and hand it to my husband.
He shows her the paper stating the date and time that he will get them back.
She says she did not agree to that.
So he asks "So the mediation was worthless? This paper means nothing?"
She said the only thing they changed was one thing about her weekends, nothing else on that paper is true.
So I interrupted, took my husband by the arm and guided him back inside the door and said, "Then court."
My husband came inside and I locked the door.
She continued to scream and pound on the door.

She said something about me choking her son when we were handing out presents, and something about never letting my husband see the kids again.

I yelled through the door. "Get off our property"
She said, "It's not YOUR property"
So my husband said, "It's my property. Get off my property."
This whole time she is yelling and banging on the door.
I yelled "I'm calling 911"

I went and got the phone and dialed.
Showed her I was on the phone through the window and she got off the porch and got int he car and ripped out of the driveway and drove away.

I spoke with the dispatcher on 911 and said I just needed documentation of the event and described it to him, explaining she left when she heard me begin talking on the phone.

SO WHAT COMES OUT OF THIS WHOLE EVENT????

My husband goes to court January 2nd for post mediation update to the judge.

The mediator will give testimony of how everything was agreed on in the mediation.

Our lawyer will play the voicemail of her yelling that she gets different time.

We will finally have proof to show the judge that his ex wife is a freaking psychopath that flips on and off like a switch!!!

***What I like the most about her voicemail is that she admits she left-obviously able to see that the kids did not have their backpacks, (something was said to trigger) and ten minutes later she turns around and decides to go back to get backpacks because suddenly she is going to keep them until school...

She is going to look like a freaking loon to the judge.