well its been 2 days since i posted anything, and things seem to getting a little better, I am still having a little problems with my oldest SS He thinks he dont have to listen to me and he always throws a fit when ask him to do anything, but when his dad ask he has no problem doing it. What am I doing wrong, why wont he listen to me too? the other 2 kids listen to me fine its just him i am having a problem with... I need some help here... I hate bumping heads with this child. Please someone help me....