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Feeling Lost and Angry

celidoll22's picture

I am at my wits end with my SD Biomom and her convict boyfriend. It has been recently brought to our attention that our SD was living in a "grow" house with her mom and mom's boyfriend. We confronted bio-mom and she confessed and agreed that we hold on to SD until she moved and they have a stable environment. Added to all of this drama, SD over heard that mom's boyfriend was also using drugs. This past weekend, bio-mom text both myself and and bio-dad to let us know she was ready to go back to the old schedule. Bio-dad said no not until they were stable enough and he knew that mom's boyfriend was off drugs. An argument started over text and basically ended with the boyfriend ranting about our personal life to get the heat off them. I am ready to run far away!! I just cant stand back to see how much drama this is all bringing to SD's life in addition to my relationship with bio-dad. On top of all of this, I just walked into SD's room and she has put up a very old picture of her mom and her dad up. I just feel betrayed after fighting for her safety, then being si unappreciated by SD. We dont want to take any of this situation to the authorities as the boyfriend has a marijuana medical card, so I am not too sure anything would be done. I just am feeling so very lost and angry.

celidoll22's picture

Thanks for your insight! They are now backtracking and saying that the children were never in the house when they were growing. But they themselves told SD that the weed was in the garage and that is why the door was always locked. I hate that the SD will be put in the middle of this so as she was the one that told us. Its such a tough situation. And i think that we can all agree that step-parenting is the most thankless job in the world!