Mad or hurt , maybe both right now.
Ok this is about my oldest daughter.
She has had depression and anger issues through childhood and adulthood.
She has 3 children, 4th on the way. The oldest are twin girls 7 yrs old who pee the bed and do pop their pants. The mattress that were bought by new mother n law to be were so pee soaked and stinky she finally threw them out. She should of bought mattress protectors instead of new tattoos and clothes. They smelled so bad I was sick to my stomach. My daughter not only publicly posted that she suffers from anxiety, depression and ect. But she complains about her own teeth rotting. But doesn't tell people she doesn't own a tooth brush and drinks Mountain Dew . Her public boohoo so are so bogus. And I have warned her to watch what she posts. Nope not her.
She treated me like shit the last two times I came up. Even said I was the reason her daughter pooped her pants. I blew. I tried telling her she needs to find out if it's an emotional issue, mental or physical issue . She tells me well I had an appointment for a specialist over a year ago. But, I can't take them bc now I'm pregnant. Omg !! I could of choked her. Really !?
Now, this last time I thought it was me. But, it wasn't she intentionally made sure we couldn't spend time with the grand kids. I was so upset. We drove 250 miles one way. I was so hurt.
Supposedly she making u excuses why she is doing this in a sneaky way on social media. That I'm negative. When ? I'd do anything for her and the kids.
Get this before last grand son was born she said well he's not my SO son. I was pregnant before I met SO bf.
Also, the twins told me some other guys name who to this day idk who he is. And I questioned that. Daughter said no, he's not the father either. This other guy is. I should of wrote this guy's name down. Like maybe everything daughter has said is a lie.
So, I do think grandson is not SO's. It doesn't have red hair or anything at all. GS does look like daughter and some of my family.
Daughter tells me to never tell anyone, which I am very loyal. I have not let the cat of the bag. But, recently, they coddle the idea he is SO son on and on. His side of the family have no idea. Only my other daughter, my DH, her father know. Everyone else thinks boy is SO, BF. Now, she's definitely Prego with BF baby. Ugh
Please don't say anything negative about twins. Their dad is in prison again. Long story. My daughter knew he was a former felon. They married it was a nightmare . The girls know their father is I. Prison.
Also, in January I moved to be permanently with DH. I'm glad but now dramas with this situation.
I just want to enjoy visiting the grandkids and I don't know what blew up her a**. I haven't done anything. I come up like once a month since then. I love my grandkids like crazy.
Now, this visit I see twins are laying on the floor again with one blanket. For idk how long and how many times they have to do this. Everyone keeps buying her beds. And I have lectured enough.
I was told by he state that just bc I am the biological grandma doesn't mean they'd award them to me that they'd be in the system.
I inquired bc something should be done. BD has a history of poor decisions. I have been always worried about the girls. Two years they lived with me. They came to me like wild animals and I helped. I retrained them. They'd do nothing but hit, kick and yell.
I think this last episodes of drama are of daughter whose 26 mad at me, bc I have a relationship with other daughter who lives in another state whose 24 yrs old. This is just stupid. I know daughter is mad I moved and made that DH makes me one happy woman. Which you'd think after all I been through she'd be happy.
I'm sure this is about to come to a head.
I am really tired of holding a secret. See these people bond with grandson like he's SO's. And see the great grandparents having big parties with him not knowing. SO does work, pays bills, she's on food stamps, he spoils grandson. This is why I keep quiet. But, she does take advantage of him. I've seen him come home everyday washing bottles and cooking supper. But, that's them.
I see future mother n law giving about $300.00 in presents for girls at birthdays and Xmas . She's a good woman. She claims the girls as her grand daughters. I hurt daughter whining to her she needs a $100.00 . I think she s wrong for that. SO dad claimed to me he can't help them with money he has none. So they must of asked.
I give credit to SO who'd put up with this ? Or did she lie to me and he is the father. Or did she lie to him ? Idk how if grandson is 16 months and he hasn't been around daughter that long ,duh. She spread all over social media that they were together over 2 yrs. no they weren't .... It's lie after lie.
I have a headache now....