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does your ex keep changing plans and making your life a living hell ?

pat's picture

:O Is there anybody else that has a control freak for a ex ? My ex tells me if she can take the girls on one of my Sundays to a baseball game. I said ok. So, she took them. I did not go ( we don't get along at all) . Then the following week she tells me she will be sending one of my kids to camp for the weekend , so I said ok. Then mothers day came , so I did not see them then. So , I said how about this weekend ? She replied, this is my weekend ! WTH ??? But she said you can have them next week . I told her that I gave her the weeks that I am available. She told me that my scedule is off ! So, I have been fexible and she is not ?? This is so straining.

iwishyouwould's picture

If you know that she is not going to play nice and reciprocate, my advice would be to not give up your days in the future for any reason other than mothers day; she's obviously not going to let you make them up, so probably the best solution is to not go there, ya know... save yourself the headache.