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Didn't want SD to come back, ...but she is

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Submitted by JenniferW on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 12:17am

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So I don't know if anyone remember my story about SD16 sending naked pics over the internet, etc etc, then getting caught and running to her BM's house. Well, she is coming back in order to go back to school...now,I've discovered some more nasty facts about her..like, the fact that she was pushing her BF to have sex in the bathroom of a big mall here where we live :jawdrop: . She was telling him how one day when I wouldn't be at home they could skype or have phone sex, that way she could be loud :sick: ....So I told DH, that when she comes back this weekend, I will lay down the law, you know, set some rules and talk to her...and he goes: "like what?" :O Ummm WTH??? I am beyond pissed.

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Submitted by simifan on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 12:43am

Forget rules you can't enforce - take her to planned parenthood & demand they give her the depo shot.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 9:26am

Who says the OP or (any SM )will be stuck baby sitting? When did SMs give up the option to say no?

Saying no and meaning it will force mom and the grandparents to come up with a plan that does not include SM.

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 11:20am

I feel your pain -I have a sex crazed SD14! we just put her on the depo shot last month; after finding out about her THIRD relationship. She pushes her friends down and would probably step on them to get to a boy! and they know it........She says things to my SD12 that I wish I could knock her out for.......but daddy would never believe it.....not his princess!! Girls lack this are attention crazed.....not because they are abused or crave "ggod" attention; they like the bad kind; being with boys makes them FEEL good about themselves - it's kind of sick.

She lives w/ us and I made DH open his eyes......I am already one of his devil spawns - I wasn't going to be a grandmother to one!!

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Submitted by JenniferW on Mon, 08/08/2011 - 10:12pm

Leahmcc33 that is exactly why I "Have" to care, because the consequences will be a problem for me and my husband, WE had a talk tonight and I told her that I am done with her, that I am done with her BM and Aunts and I am moving on, I am freeing myself from getting hurt and badmouthed, if they want to do it fine with me, I don't care about words anymore, now, I also told her that I've done everything that I was Allowed to do, but I couldn't do anymore for her in terms of her upbringing, and that ultimately she is in this situation due to her parents lack of good parenting, not setting limits and not being able to say no every now and then. So in the end I feel sorry for her, but I don't trust her, I don't want her near my kids and I told her so. She is a bad example to my two girls 9 and 5...so she cried and went to bed. End of story. Until the next round I guess...