BM's form of punishment
Good lord - BM's new "punishment" for me is to refuse to drive the skids over to our house unless DH is here. DH is currently working like 2 hours away and traffic is awful so he is obviously not going to be able to be home by 6 pm. He keeps trying to explain this to BM, but she tells him that he "should be making the skids a priority", lol. Ummmm.....by not working?
She can bring them over and leave them with me - she used to do that all the time before I made her mad and now "the skids don't want to come over if DH isn't her". Bullshit. The last time we picked them up for the day, one of them literally had tears in his eyes because he wanted to come spend the night with us instead of "watching TV all day while mom yells at us". BM says that she absolutely will not drop them off with just me here because she isn't driving them all that way to spend time with their stepmother. Wow - and I was so looking forward to babysitting for BM on my Friday night so that she could go skank it up with the neighbor or some troll she has been calling "Big Daddy" and literally resembles Homer Simpson, lol.
Allrighty!!!! you know what
Allrighty!!!! you know what you do....slip down to the applebees bar and wait for DH to turn up...have a couple of drinks....txt to say DH has got caught in traffic/accident/ran outta gas...wot eva....piss her off....for goodness sake...
makes you feel like crap when they throw this bullshit at yah hay....???
Dont worry....the womens mad....she should have been put down at birth!
Ha. You know one time my ex
Ha. You know one time my ex would do this to me. We shared custody 50/50 with each of us having a midweek visitation for a few hours. Well he started off taking them on wed. Ok, no problem. So i arranged my work schedule to work late on those days to make extra money when kids were gone. Then he decided he was gonna switch to tuesdays. So i rearranged my schedule again to work late tuesdays when he had the kids for visitation. Most of the time i got out of work on time, but periodically i would be a little late. I would always ask ( and ex always knew) to just drop the kids off at my house, my bf was there. He refused. He would purposely drop my kids (who at the time were 5 &7) off at my work! Ugh. So i called foc. Would you believe that bitch on the phone at first was trying to give me the speech about being flexible, and compromise!!! I was pissed. I said "i have already changed my work schedule twice. I cannot change it anymore. I am being flexible and i am comprimising, but all i am asking is for the children to be dropped off at their home. They cannot be dropped off at my work. He is not compromising! He refuses to drop them off becuz he personally doesnt like somebody? No. Unacceptable. He is returning the kids to me on my week, he should have to drop them off at home period. As long as there is a responsible trusting adult home there isnt a reason not to."
She changed her tone quick and 2 days later a letter came stating he is suppose to drop them off at the appointed time and place. As long as an adult is present, doesnt matter who, he must comply. To not, is contempt of court order.
Hmmm... I'm worried that this
Hmmm... I'm worried that this next week BM will jot allow me to pick up SS from school because she is mad at me and my husband won't be home until that night. He goes to school in our town but they live 35-40 min away, so if she takes them there that's a crazy inconvenience for us! I always pick him up from school and actually, I usually pick him up from school FOR HER on her weeks too! But now that she's mad, I hope she doesn't try to pull this move....
I guess it's comforting to know that I'm not the only SM going through all this, but geez.... Sucks for all of us! Our custody papers say that if one biological parent is not present, the child should be with the other biological parent. But I wonder, does this mean even for a couple hours while waiting on dad to get home from work?
WHY ARE ALL THE BM'S SO CRAZY?!?!
I just realized "BM" is the medical term for Bowel Movement