Let her call the cops.. block her bf as well. She cant prove you where talking about anyone.

It is not a criminal offense even if you named names. It is civil and she has no leg to stand on. Put your page on private and she can always file but that doesn't mean she will win and it also doesn't mean a judge will get pissed and probably toss it immediately and force her to pay attorneys fees for you as well as court costs...but the judge might.

As long as names werent mentioned nor associations such as "my bf''s ex" she has nothing. Especially if you add the disclaimer "any similarities to true stories are purely coincidental".

I would not worry to much. But I would set your account so that only "FRIENDS" can see what you post on your wall, your photos, EVERYTHING!And from there if there are certain friends that you do not want to see things then you can block them from seeing what ever it is you want.

Most likely the police won't give her the time of day.

However, if BM and husband end up back in court, she can present the screen shots to the judge which MAY hurt your husband.

Block the boyfriend

Our BM did that once. She saw on Twitter that I posted, "here come the tears" on a weekend with SK. Thats all it said, and stupida was making all sorts of threats. I wouldn't worry about it and just take the advice of the previous posters.

BM has to prove what you said damaged her reputation/hurt her monetarily/was a lie. I think you are safe. But make your page private.

ACTUALLY... A judge *could* order you to refrain from discussing anything about Mom and the situation. BTDT.

There have been cases, such as the guy who wrote the pysco ex wife. Btw...if its written its libel not slander.

You are stirring the pot and causing trouble.

The crazy BM I deal with does this all the time. When DF confronts her about, she plays dumb. She's in her 30s but acts like a silly teen.

Your boyfriend had just won custody and you felt the need to what......rub it in BMs face. You knew she could have seen that on her bfs page. You were gloating. I really don't blame her for being angry. All you succeeded in doing was cause more drama. And you think BM is a problem.

FOR FUTURE REFERENCE. FACEBOOK IS ANYTHING BUT A DISCREET METHOD OF COMMUNICATION. But then I'm sure you knew that when you created the drama and the post.

Once BM figures out she's using the wrong source to fight her 'battles' (the police instead of the courts), you can bet your behind she'll pull out each and every screen shot and hand them to her lawyer.

Just because you did not use names won't get you off the hook. No Einstein needed to know exactly who you're writing about. You had an open FB account. You write of BM, Sks, exW blah blah. You've personal photos ect of you and your family. No judge is going to be so naive as to buy your excuse story. You didn't just post you think the woman is a fool, you accused her of child abuse.

If you seriously believe the sk is being drugged, the place to 'report' concerns is DCFS/CPS (whatever your state calls it). True story...a number of years ago, a lady not living far from me did od her child when drugging it for bedtime. The kid died. Now stop and ask yourself. Do you really post what you did, where you did, out of concern for the sk? Or did you post it and where you did it toss rocks at BM in a very public way aka to cause harm with malice?

You did manage to find your way here and sign up under an anonymous status to people who know nothing about who you, BM, sks, ect are. You are managing to vent and spill to the 'outside world'. If you need to post what you think of BM, best to do it here. Facebook under your real name on your personal page is just asking for trouble.

My ex was able to get to my FB account through my bs and took photo's of the page of my bs and my discussions, it was private messages too, and took them to court when I was fighting for custody. My attorney and the judge both slapped his wrists nicely and said tut tut. Yea, he thought he had me but in the messages I did not mention names or specific details, so only anyone knowing the circumstances would know but it was not "admissible". Silly boy. haha

Since then I have locked down my account and everything I say on there is completely vague and no names, etc.

I love sunflowers quote:

"When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser" Socrates"

My ex tried soooo hard to slander me. My attorney told me that b/c it's a free country he can take out a full page ad slandering me and I could not take him to court. But my husband did it in a worse way then publicly, he printed off all the crappy divorce stuff and gave a copy to each of my kids' teachers and all of our old friends, etc. He even hung fliers on all our neighbors mail boxes. Crazy fool b/c it made him look bad but he didn't see it that way.

Yea for everyone's sake in the long run just delete everything and make your page private. The comments could be used in a future battle over custody. Congrats on full custody, just be careful in the future because things could get really ugly with custody type stuff.

What you posted, to be honest, is something better blogged about here. If you don't leave your house during the day, create a blog about the annoying qualities/behaviors of your sks here. Even when names aren't mentioned, issues are better/less severe when they're not aired on Facebook.

I didn't say you were crazy. I said you SOUND like the crazy woman I deal with.

Besides, I didn't name names so why are you annoyed?

Yellowbelly, your original post clearly states BM saw the post you wrote on Facebook because she went through her bfs account. Then when you were called on that you claimed in a later post that BM had you blocked for a year and just happened to unblock you on the other day and snoop on your page. Which story is the lie. Or perhaps both stories are lies. You are FB friends with her boyfriend and claim you didnt think she would see the post. What, you didnt think her boyfriend would pass it on either. And why exactly would you be friends on Facebook with BMs boyfriend, just another reason to push her buttons I expect.

If you keep this attitude up towards your SDs mother, you are going to have a very difficult time with that child, and that is going to impact on your own relationship. BM may very well have the last laugh here.

I stick with my original comment. You did it because your boyfriend won custodyand you were just gloating and trying to rub BMs nose in it. You were being mean, immature and nasty. No wonder you have no friends to talk to.

My opinion has been cemented by the lie or lies you just told in regards to how BM saw the comment. Because either you lied in your initial blog, or you lied in a later post, or you lied about both. And because you were able to find this site to come running to once you thought she could get you legally, but you couldn't find it to blog anonymously in the first place instead of using Facebook. And, of course, here you are a woman who says she never leaves the house, has no phone and if she did would have no one to call, says that Facebook is your only social interaction, and you have an open Facebook page, therefore if any of that is true you would be well aware Facebook was anything but discreet.

I hope she can take action against you, it might just give you a wake up call. Leave this woman alone.

What on Earth did you write that she thinks she has a case for the cops? Are you discussing something that isn't legal and admitting that you are taking part in it (drugs, murder, theft, etc)? If not, then lol... she doesn't have a "case" and she will piss off the cops who need to tend to REAL cases if she bugs them because she has hangups about her ex's new lady. My step daughter's mother has pulled similar threats relating to facebook... she once demanded to my husband that I remove all photos of her daughter from my PRIVATE facebook that she'd hacked, and she copied and documented a message my husband had sent her clarifying that he's never and will never have any feelings for her and telling her to back off of me (they were never an item, they were only bedroom pals for a few weeks, but she expected the pregnancy to spark a flame and was enraged when she realized it would never happen- he and I are about to celebrate our 9th anniversary). She can file that letter if she wants and we will laugh along with the police if she tries to turn it in and have him arrested for not loving her, or have me arrested for having private photos of my family, lol. Let her scream, sometimes you just need to let the "kids" throw a fit and ignore them.

I was right. Not only do you now admit you were gloating, but your comment of SO WHAT says it all. And you think other people are mean. Your boyfriend won custody that very day and you had time to stick it up BM. Now that is mean.