Ok, let me vent please! First of all we havent seen SO's BD since June (she is 2.5) All because BM asked for more $ and didnt get it. (he pays cs,and does his part, and was active in her life) but since she didnt get the money for daycare (she is on assistance and the state shut down- she told us she had to pay upfront, we found out the center did not make her do this) after the shut down ended, she then attempted to get $ for so called medical bills. She said 1300. She didnt get it. Said if she didnt he wouldnt see his kid, and he still hasnt. I have a friend that works at the clinic she claims she went- and told me there is a 0 balance on this account, never has had one. And funny, we never seen a bill. So, i guess she is mad that he stopped asking to see he as often as he was and being denied, cuz she knew it was pissing him off- so now, the is running her mouth spreading rumors that he got someone else pregnant. She txtd him last weekend and said she heard he got someone preg and that she had a right to know if it was true. (mind u, she did this same rumor shortly after her kid was born, because they had child support issues) He told her no, this is not true, and none of her business, and not to call or text unless it is regarding seeing or talking to his kid. She then txtd me with the same bullshit. The worst part of this all is I am 6 weeks pregnant. She didnt know, he didnt even know at the time of the rumor text. I told him after it all. But I know she is the devil, because how coincedental. She is just looking for him to be miserable anyway possible,and this would be it becuase she hoped by telling me it would cause a huge problem with him and I. She told me she heard it 'from someone who told someone who told someone who told someone" no names, and then she said, well he denied it, so i dropped it. He then told her to quit texting me with that bs. And she had the nerve to say I textd her!! Ughh. I just want her gone, i swear. I dont need this stress right now. Here is some history of her and I. I was 4 months pregnant with my son, when i found out she was pregnant with his kid. Yes, he was a douche bag at that time- and we have worked thru it all. I even accepted this kid, and loved her like my own. Her plan didnt work out from the start of her "happy family" so she will forever be our thorn. She wont quit until she feels she has accomplished her goal of ruining us. Anyway, I just had to vent. Now we have to face court fee's just so that he can see his kid. He has a court order for visitation currently but it just reads "open and liberal time according to his work schedule" he travels for work sometimes, so they couldnt determine exact dates and times, which leaves her in control of saying nope, u cant see her I guess. Unfortunate for the lil girl, and my kids who keep asking to see her. I wonder what the next rumor will be. I just hope to get thru this pregnancy without her ruining my joy again, like she took from me last time. Its her purpose in life. But only if i allow it, right?!