BF wants to sue BM and have us welcome SS back into our lives
As you all know BF ended the custody battle and has SS EOW. I know he is saddened by this as he has been melancholy lately.
If you remember BM had him arrested (when she showed up at SS school on his time, said she was taking SS as he didn’t want to be with BF as long as I was around, BF refused to leave and she called cops, said he pushed her because she tried to warn him about me stealing drugs from my patients and he wouldn’t listen. He was arrested without any injuries on her (Charges were later dismissed).
He was SS’s soccer coach FOR YEARS and a few weeks before the arrest, they were sending out the plans/schedules and he wasn’t notified. He called the Youth Soccer person, who emailed him that He “was no longer needed” I told him this was BM’s doing, and he poo-pooed my concerns and blamed Covid.
BM admitted on the stand during custody battle that she told the person in charge of soccer (Who is good friends eight her family) that BF was a “Wife beater” and showed him the sexting messages/sexy photos of him and I (That she broke into his Icould and made copies, but its “our fault” by sending them to each other according to lawyers and cops). We spoke to the custody lawyer about suing her, he said we don’t have a case (specially me because there are no damages to me) that it is hard in our state to prove slander/defamation of character and “If she believes her lies it isn’t slander.’
BF forgot about the soccer, but just applied to be a field hockey coach that his buddy convinced him to try out. Everyone in the field hockey liked him and he was in the process of being hired UNTIL he just got “Blown off” for no reason. BF asked his buddy about it, and when his buddy inquired about BF’s status he was told, “There is something wrong with him.” BF went to the field hockey meeting/dinner and was ignored by all the “bigwigs.”
The head coach gave him the “side eye” when he walked past him. (These people know the soccer people although another town).
Now to the nitty gritty. BF just announced that now that the cosuty battle is over, he wants to “reintroduce” SS to me and my kids. He said he is going to tell SS that this is the way its going to be, you are going to be hanging around with us and you are going to like it” and he said he is going to start taking SS to our church where my son is an alter boy.
I told BF that as long as SS is still under BM’s roof, he is not to be around me or my kids. I also said that if he begins taking him to our church I will pull the kids out and go to another church. I may be a ahole, but I don’t care.
BF is looking for a lawyer to sue BM. But I still don’t want SS around.