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Gia's picture

Submitted by Gia on Mon, 05/04/2009 - 2:57pm

Well... I love SD5 ONLY when she has been here for a few days in a row... everything is so great, I don't even want her to leave... but if she is not with us for a few days, I don't want her to come back?... and I act weird, and almost everything she does bothers me (although she does some annoying things when she spends a lot of time with her mother)...

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME????

Right now we have her every other day during the week and every other weekend... and I LOVED this past weekend(SDLESS)... IT was sooo relaxing... :O

I don't wanna be evil... why does this happen???

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Submitted by Gia on Mon, 05/04/2009 - 3:17pm

when she has been here for a few days sounds kinda tough... I DO LOVE HER all the time... but it is different... and hard to explain... Sad

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Submitted by StepG on Mon, 05/04/2009 - 4:27pm

when it is time for SS to come a bigger part of me DREADS it then once he is with us a day or so or even a few hours I do not want him to leave. I think I have narrowed my problem down to when he comes from BM I have to hear all about them and I would really rather not hear about BM did this and BM did that. I love SS all the time as well. I just know he has a seperate life apart from us that I do not like how he is in that life and he will be transitioning from that when he comes to us so I have to deal with him acting out that part of his life.

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Submitted by melis070179 on Mon, 05/04/2009 - 5:37pm

Probably because when she's gone you associate her with BM, then when she's there for a while you don't make that connection anymore. And EVERYONE thinks kid free weekends are relaxing Wink

"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"