Background...SD14 did not tell BM about sports banquet last weekend (her weekend) banquet is on her weekday visitation. H called & left a vm to the witch that SD needed to be there by 6pm and if she was going. BM left a vm (they never talk) stating SD14 didn't tell her and she was going and to drop him off at 530pm. I told him my opinion....BM kept saying to the attorneys during her deposition that she communicates with her son about all his sporting things...I told him to drop him off and we would go and if she didn't go that was her problem and SS14.

Day of the event she calls not my H but SS13 to ask if she could bring people. SS13 told H and SS13 told her that she needed to contact his Dad. Well, she didn't and she invited 6 other people.
She of course didn't bring anything. SS14 wanted to take it to BM and H told him "No that is from me".

While waiting in line...SS11 asked my H if he could sign him up for his sport activity this coming Sat for his Mom? BM doesn't want to 1 get up out of her bed and 2 probably will tell SS11 that she doesn't have any money and blame H for it. The parenting agreement states she pays 100% for him and H pays 100% on the other 2.

Besides bringing extra people that did not go to one meet, after SS14 got his award, they proceeded out the door. Ok who is not going to notice an entire table leaving. They sat near an exit door up front. I hope SS14 is embarrassed.

I am writing this down for the documentation for my H in is custody battle.....I wrote every stupid thing down and she is losing the case because of it.

My overraction question is.....should I be making a big deal out of this?? BM was looking for a free meal at the expense of others and didn't ask did what she wanted to do. This is her theme of life....F everyone else...I do what I want.

I am just tired of the whole thing.