If I were you, and I don't claim to be, I would not engage in her behavior. You are totally allowing her to get to you and under your skin. This sounds like EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS! She is trying to piss you off and knows what buttons to push. Live your life with YOUR husband and SS. Stop letting her control your emotions. Stay healthy and happy!

so sorry that you have to deal with such an upfront BEEOTCH, at least the BM in my life tries to "act" normal in front of others.
I can totally understand why this would hurt you and bother you. Just remember these things:

1. BM is jealous of you, that is why she tries to drag you down to a level where she wouldn't need to feel so jealous.

2. You are a better wife, mother, and person than BM (and she knows it) so she will try to get a rise out of you so she can tell everyone "see look at what a witch SM is."

3. BM knows deep down inside that she never have what you have because she is not the woman you are.... and it drives her CRAZY!

My advice for you (as hard as it is).... try, try, try not to let BM get a rise out of you... I know her words are hurtful but I can't imagine that she would be able to tell anyone that she wishes a miscarriage upon you and have that person think that BM is a good person. BM will drown herself, you don't even need to shove her... she will do it all on her own.... so let her.

I would have slugged that b**** right in the face.....but that's just me....

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin

Always remember...don't let her rent space in your head!

hubbys ex said that to me too.... mate i have been here for 13 years god knows why?
when u do have your baby she will always use your child as a weapon against ss trying to make your hubby feel bad, i know its really hard not too, BUT u have to ignore her and her fowl mouth. Block her out , other wise u will go insane .... and it will annoy her that she isnt getting to u! It is really hard but just try! good luck

BM was wishing death on our baby, called and yelled it on my voice mail, and even wrote it in an e-mail. That was it for me! I made up my mind to "check-out" and start thinking of myself and my baby first. BM had crossed many lines with me.....I made sure that , was the last one!"~waiting on the world to change~"

the people she has been telling that to are thinking she is as crazy as she really is. If someone told me that, I think I'd walk away....what an idiot!

why does these BMs even make it their business?? is it NONE!
that is so awful...that would be the last straw for me too

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

i just dont understand why as a mother herself, she would want to harm another child. oh thats rite...bc shes a selfish jealous bitch.

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

a police report for her threatening you!

I think I would file a police report, just to have it on file...you know in case you need to defend yourself at a later time.

She is a total mental case !

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

I know you are pregnant though but I couldn't help writing that cuz I would have gone MENTAL. You have to be one of the most poised and self restrained women i have ever read about. That bitch would have been picking her teeth up off the floor if she said something so awful like that. I can not believe it. I agree with your husband but I would cut all contact with BM starting now. It's great email only and drop off pickups by relatives you are very lucky to have that option. I would also file a police report because this situation could calm down but pop up later on and if you don't file something it will just be hearsay on your part. This woman is evil and manipulative. I wish the ground would open up and suck her in - if I lived in the same town as you, hell the same state I would go slap her for you myself!!!

from having her whacked. Ok, seriously, whacking people is way wrong but these bm's just are so evil sometimes it makes you wonder.

I am truly sorry she said what she said...that is a low blow if ever I've heard one...and the bm i deal with knows how to hit below the belt. God bless you for not beating her a** right there or having someone else do it...I know I would have not been able to restrain myself, so congrats to you for that.

She sounds like an evil twisted hatefull skank. She's completely jealous of you and just wants to hurt you because she's a troll.
I agree with everyone who said document it all and make police reports, including documenting anything witnesses hear from her. It may be relevant later on.
As far as money goes though, I've heard that the bm can file for more c.s. based on household income (yours and his combined)...so I'd get an attorney on it like now just to see what's what.

You know what, she probably is ugly too and smells like old cheese. You're way better than that. Hugs to you

What a horrible, pathetic woman! What kind of monster would wish a miscarriage on another woman? Especially a woman who, herself, has given birth. She would actually want an innocent baby to die and a woman to suffer intense grief because she has a personal vendetta against her exe's wife? This BM sounds like a psycho and a greedy one at that. Well, you can take satisfaction that she can't legally touch your money (at least in most states?) and it will cause her to suffer more than you can imagine to see you with your darling future baby and your loving spouse, because that will never be her. No matter how bad it gets or how out of line she gets, always remember that you have already won. You have the husband, the happy family, your own future income and your own future children. She can't touch any of that no matter how hard she tries.

"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere

And I've heard plenty of name calling, gossiping, what have you.
This takes the cake. What a vicious woman.