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stepatwitsend's picture

One question I have for anyone who could give some insight. Why wouldn't my SD move in with her BM if she is so unhappy in our house. There are no court orders where she has to be and she is 18 why would she live with us???

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stepatwitsend's picture

God it seems like they have such a great time and she is soo nice to her BM. Anytime we are at something where her BM she sticks to her and ignores us like we have the plague.

How many SK do you have??

Elizabeth's picture

SD14 is a thorn in my backside. My husband has offered SEVERAL times to let her go live with her BM because her being with us makes EVERYONE unhappy. But she won't go! She talks about how great her mom is, and her mom totally lets her run wild while she's there. Why won't she go live with her?!

stepatwitsend's picture

OH MY GOD I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!! CAN YOU IMAGINE HER BEING 18 AN ACTING LIKE THAT... I CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT THIS SD HAS PUT ME THROUGH AND YET SHE STILL LIVES WITH US. I AM QUESSING BECAUSE MY HUSBAND SERVES HER ON A SILVER PLATTER!!!

Step2be's picture

She is not unhappy at your house, she is manipulating the situation and probably playing both of the BP's. If its an issue of setting boundaries and BM letting her do what she wants, then she probably likes the security she has there even if she complains about it. SK's are just way too complicated to figure out!

need2vent's picture

maybe like the adult Skids I have encountered , they go where the money is, sniff it out and stay close.Would that be correct here?

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