So our first session went well. We were give a few things to work on our own. Therapist suggest that DH stay at his parents for longer than a week. So he will be there for the rest of the month. This will give us time to refocus. But on Sunday we have a "family dinner'" date with SS and DD. We have also talked to BM (vaguly) that we have having marital problems and are attending coucinling and it might be beiffecall for SS to come with us. BM said very clearly NO. Unfortanally I think SS needs it. He probably needs someone to talk to. I know that some things have happend in BM house, as well as our house. Plus a situation with a babysitter when he was 4 and at his BM house. (Even at that time BM wouldn't allow SS see a councler). The therapist we are seeing is only open durning the week, we only have SS on the weekends.
It is really hard to be away from DH for so long. But I think that it will help. It is good to be able to just relax and not feel like I'm living in a time bomb waiting to explode.
I just want to say, I am so grateful for this site. Ever since I had my baby, most of my friends didn't want to spend as much time with me. The few close people in my life live out of town. This site has given me a connection to others in simalar situations, or those who have gone through the same types of things. So thank you so much!