bm has new baby
I can't belive the nerve of bm. I will try and fill you in it was her year to have sd for spring break so we have not seen her since April 4 ( we usually get her one night a week and everyother weekend and everyother week in the summer) anyway H2B was called out to work Sat night before Easter and was gone until 3 am Monday morning. Tries to call sd but of course her mother never answers anyway we don't hear from her all week until Sat April 14 she calls to tell Daddy that Mommy had her baby. WTF!!! She doesn't have the child call in a week in a half almost 2 weeks so she has her call to tell him her baby is here nothing like slapping him right in the face. We don't noramlly hear from her when she is with her mom unless something is wrong and she very seldom asks to call her mom when we have her so I guess it goes both ways but we do make sure she calls her if we have her on the holiday even the bm b day. What a b***h!!! she did it to just rub it in his face because she knows that is what he wanted almost 2 yrs ago when she decided to have an affair and leave him he begged her to stay and she told him she didn't want any more kids espically with him. Why are some people so hurtful? I am sorry but that is just mean. I guess another part of the problem is we would love to have one of our own but unfortunatly I had a tubal 6yrs ago and can't.
Sorry I just had to get that off my chest it has really been eating at me.
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Just being mean
I would be more upset at who was taking care of Sd while she was having the baby. Why didn't you two have SD so she had some time to her-self.
As far as her making SD call and tell you about the new baby, that's just mean, selfish and vindictive.
I'm sorry, Jo
"I'll be alright in a year or two after I calm down". Detective Donahue - Soap
Extra time thats funny
It is hard to tell who had sd her mother would never offer extra time with us that would be way to easy. The ex won't even call our house because I might answer the phone she will only call h2b cell phone, she informed us if h2b or his mom can not pick sd up at drop off then no one can If I pull in to pick her up by myself she will just leave and won't let me have her. I am not allowed to pick her up or drop her off at school this is the same woman that a couple of weeks ago forgot to double check with her aunt to make sure she was picking sd up so here sat this little 6yr (5 at the time) wondering when someone was going to pick her up. When the school called the ex she called h2b Mom in a panick school had let out a half hour ago and sd was sitting there with the teacher. It was our evening to have her but we are not allowed to pick her up we have to meet at the meeting place to get her if she would just let Grandma pick her up on Wed at school we wouldn't have had the problem. Now she has this new baby oh how sd will suffer and be pushed aside. We just keep everything documented in hopes she will screw up bad enough that we can get her permenately.
Unbelievable
Wow...let me say that I am sorry about the baby issue. It does sound like she was being vindictive and nasty, and it's just a shame that there are such sad individuals in the world.
While I am at the end of my SM journey, I can tell you that a lot of what you are going through is familiar to me. In the beginning, I was not allowed to pick up DSS. If DH was 5 minutes late, BB would leave and tell him on the phone "tough shit." And to this day we cannot pick DSS up from her house (which is 5 minutes from ours). Pick-up/drop-ff has to be in a parking lot. BB also had a baby recently and DH BEGGED to have DSS stay with us and she refused. We did go to court and the judge kind of put her in her place, which really helped. This might work for you--have you got a court order?
yeah we have court order and
yeah we have court order and it is followed to a "T" she is not willing to bend in the least. Although it doesn't state who is to pick sd up or drop her off it just says when and where. I think since this new baby is here she will start bending a little or at least we hope.
I was right
i was right she is started to bend a little already. H2B had to leave today to go out of town for work and it is the day we are suppose to get sd so H2B calls BM last night and tells her hey I have to go out of town for work and won't be able to get SD tommorow so I was wondering if I could switch days and get her Sunday instead. She actually said yes I couldn't believe it maybe things are going to get better.