I was soooooooooo thankful when my X finally met my kids SM. He had dated a few other women, but nothing serious and when he was single he drove me batty out of his boredom. He never really has given me a hard time, but for years after our divorce when he wasn't dating he would start thinking about the what if's of our previous relationship together--I once got a call from him at midnight on saturday--I had kids he was drunk and rambleing about how he would never find anyone like me---He was right--but he did file for divorce. I wanted it later but at the time saw no point in rushing. His rushing made me realize how little "our marriage" had really ment.

By the time he was having second thoughts I had already moved on and accepted it all for what it was--and was happy with my new found freedom. Now that he is married all that has stopped.

Now my BF's X left him for another woman as you know--is now married, but still drives us crazy. The only time she doesn't do this is when she is pissed about something or when she is having one of her "affairs"--yes we live in a very small town and hear/overhear alot of things. When she isn't mad and isn't calling we know she has found a new "friend".

I'm glad for you--maybe things will work out, she'll move on and at leave you alone for a while. I'll keep my fingers crossed.

Alisha

I wish my ex would start dating.Maybe that would distract him from trying to make my life miserable.

Lacey

I tell you when my BM was dating, it was great! But the moment that that relationship went soar, instead of taking it out on that guy, she took it out on us!

Now, she's married.... THANK GAWD!

So, I certainly can relate! ENJOY IT!

our bm was truly psychotic...very similar to your bm, ss didn't know how to brush teeth, in fact his teeth were rotting, she partied at the bars all the time, and always, always wanted more money, and everything was a huge argument. And of course, my name just sent her through the roof!!! LOL!

The minute she met her last bf, a man she genuinely loved, she turned 180 degrees around...and that is no joke. Started actually apologizing in some ways for her behavior, worked with us graciously, supported us in all of our needs...it was so weird. Then they broke up, she asked the state to have a review of cs, it didn't change due to the fact we had a child by then (actually it was suppose to go down, but it wasn't enough to warrant a change), and she was so pist off she wasn't getting more money now that she was single, and started denying dh visitations again....

But then 3 weeks later, she found her next victim, moved in with him and we are on happy terms again....

Don't cha just luv the roller coaster ride??? Good times!