We've Broken Up, I'm Finally Out...
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Hi everyone,
I posted a few weeks back that I was getting ready to break up with SO. I've finally done it. He moved out last night, and I'm more than excited to get my house back in order and live a child-free life again. It was difficult, very difficult, because I do love and care about him and I know he loves me. But it's for the best. We're just not right for each other, and I'm looking forward to seeing what the future brings.
I wanted to thank everyone who has given me fantastic guidance and advice. This past 3 years was crazy for me and steptalk really helped me get through it.
Thank you all.
I wish the best for everyone here!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
Congrats on being brat-free!
Congrats on being brat-free! I know I for one an jealous!
Just remember...STAY AWAYYYYY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
My apologies for all of the
My apologies for all of the posts...my computer froze on me! Ugh
Not to worry. It needs to be
Not to worry. It needs to be emphasized that much. I'll say it again:
STAY AWAY FROM MEN WITH KIDS!!!
And congrats on doing something I should have done almost 12 years ago!!!!
You got that right! There
You got that right!
There is no BETTER advice we SMs can give to another woman...stay the hell away from men with kids...men should come with that info tattooed on their damn foreheads to save us from a life of misery!!!
It's not your computer,
It's not your computer, Tasha. Trying to post on this site is a pita.
Hahahaha I know right! That
Hahahaha I know right! That should be put in fortune cookies...it will save alot of lives!
Hahahaha I know right! That
Hahahaha I know right! That should be put in fortune cookies...it will save alot of lives!
Thank GOD you did it!! I'm
Thank GOD you did it!! I'm old enough to be your mother, and it was difficult to read your posts. Your ex lacks maturity and motivation, and his poor choices are going to affect his quality of life for a long, long time. He was a millstone around your neck.
A wise old Jewish man once told me, "It's just as easy to marry rich as it is to marry poor, and if you don't date poor men you eliminate half the problem." Translated into modern terms, if you're selective about the men you date and avoid people of low character altogether, your chances for a happy life will be much greater. Also, it's important to look at a man's family of origin as that will tell you what his version of normal is. Your ex came from a dysfunctional, low rent family, and it showed in the low standards he held himself to.
Half the people in this world are male, so enjoy yourself and take your time choosing a life partner. Be choosy, and be happy!
This is wonderful news!
This is wonderful news!