Don't criticize me.....
Because I am a snoop! I believe it is important to know what some people are up to. I draw the line at looking at people's phones, texts, and emails. Nothing like that. But I do use the Internet to find out info. I can tell you that when dh was being dragged into court, I did find stuff that was helpful.
So I do look at the ex and his daughters FB periodically. I have become addicted to Pinterest! So last night I found that the pack has boards. His daughter, who is 21, has a board for "hot boys", and some pics of nearly nude guys. Now I have teenagers, and even my young teen daughter would not refer to guys as boys. Just kinda immature? I guess I have an interest in strangers that are connected to me in some strange sadistic way! I am sure some of you ladies can identify with that? I do recall that saying...curiosity killed the cat.....so I do need to be careful!
Well I think that what
Well I think that what motivates me is that dh's daughters are really truly strangers to me. That is not the case with some of you ladies who have known your steps for years and years. These people were dh's immediate family and I am curious about them. I guess they might be curious about me.
Anything on the net is
Anything on the net is considered public purview. So you are not a snoop.
That would be like saying you are a spy because you have a public library card.
QUOTE: >Know your enemy.
QUOTE: >Know your enemy. That's my motto<
It's also from Sun Tzu's "Art of War". I made my DW read an abridged version of it. We use those tacticS whenever we deal with her ex!
I am of the belief that the
I am of the belief that the enemy you know is better than the enemy you don't. I snoop and it is the only way I can affirm that I am glad SD is no longer in my house or my life. DH can believe she has changed, but all I have to do is periodically look at her twitter account and see that she is still trash...
My lovely SD is a pillar of
My lovely SD is a pillar of her community. Mommy and daddy found pictures of her posing naked on the Internet when they sent her to college. Guess she was taking a class on artistic expression. But it's ok, she dropped out before the semester was over. Oh well, there goes the modeling career
Look at the skids pages all you want. A great validation of what great people they are. See them at their best! God knows, these kids put everything on the Internet
That's how I found out DH's
That's how I found out DH's ex & her current hubby were arrested for burglary a few years ago...just a quick little search on the public court records for her state. No snooping involved, all public record. Basically that's how I found out about the judgments against her for non-payment over the years too.