TO EBU AGAIN
While I was reading all that you said about your crazy family and when I came to the family being blood. Well my middle married SS was sexually texting my daughter. It was a heck of a mess.We warned SS to leave my daughter alone but he didnt so all hell broke lose.DH didnt want me and my D to go to the police so we made a mistake and didnt go. Since I didnt go to the police I threatened my SS and I dont regret it to this day.Finally he is leaving my daughter alone now.SS has a brother (married) and a sister(married) They think since they are blood they should take up for their pervert brother.Even the DIL's are blood and they hang with them.I like what you said EBU."I will never have anything to do with this group of people who will respect and honour bad blood and Im glad they are history.
who is this too?
who is this too?
I think emotionallybeatup. It
I think emotionallybeatup. It took me a minute to figure it out.
Hey, OP, you can PM her.
Hi Lady. It never ceases to
Hi Lady. It never ceases to amaze me how families will not only refuse to allow family members to suffer the consequences of their behavior but worse will actively defend criminal behavior. What your ss did was appalling. What his family did was even worse. The message they give him is that what he did was fine. He clearly has a sick mind. What's their excuse
You would have thought they would have supported you given you did as your DH requested and did not report him to the police. But no. Bad blood comes first in families with this mentality.
Im sorry im still learning
Im sorry im still learning all the ways to posting something.
Their excuse was they are family and family dont go against each other.Oldest SS said that is my brother and it doesent matter what he does he is my brother and I will always take up for him. His wife agreed with him also.Pervert SS and his wife was married 3 years and as far as I know they didnt want any kids for a while.After SS wife found out about what he was doing to my daughter she got pregant (accidently).How stupid can a person be? DIL told me my daughter wasnt welcome at her house anymore amd this is the DIL taking up for her brother in law. Well that didnt go over with me .I told her what I had to say and I wasnt nice either.So now here we are a family seperated because of them and we get the blame.
Let them go Lady they're not
Let them go Lady they're not worth your time and energy. You wouldn't want your daughter going over there anyway. Not that' that's the point As they say birds of a feather stick together. Let these vultures have each other. When the in laws reject you it brings many benefits. You no longer have any obligations to them. That's a plus.