So DW and I have been going through some turmoil lately and things have been rocky. Last weekend (our weekend to have DW kids), she made the mistake of mentioning to BF that she may be asking him to take the kids for the weekend if things didn't clear up around our house. Big mistake. He, in his unstable and neurotic ways, proceeded to torment and harass her the rest of the night via text message. Not stopping there, he decided to also tell the kids just what he thought of the two of us and our marriage, what he thinks of their mom, what mistakes she's made in the past, etc etc. He did this often when we first began dating (7 years ago), but seemed to be trying to behave himself for the last couple years.
So things clear up between DW and I, and there is no need to have kids stay elsewhere. Unfortunatley, because of what douchebag said to his kids the night before, they don't want to go anywhere now. And he of course doesn't have the balls to even stand up to his own kids and say, 'sorry, thems the rules and it's your moms weekend.'
I'm tired of being the nice guy, so this time I told him exaclty what I thought of him. He had the nerve to send my wife texts, threatening to "tell" me certain things about her and her past. Yet he hever had the balls to actually send ME the texts. Anyways, after all this happened I decided I'm through with trying to take the higher road when it comes to dealing with him. From here out, he'll know EXACTLY where he stands with me at every turn. Just had to get this off my chest, its been driving me up the wall this week!