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sd13 might be pregnant

dispiritedstepmom2011's picture

on friday, sd left for bm's and didnt log out of facebook....snooping time! i read thru her messages and just 8 hrs before she left she sent a message to a friend of hers who just found out she is 5weeks along...so sd tells her she may be pregnant as well.

last nights status was: "imma go ghost till i know for sure" and "so my life might be over"

on friday before her mother picked her up, she came to me and said she feels a sharp pain down there when she pees. i asked her when the last time she had sex and she said 'idk recently' did he wear a condom? 'no' did he, ya know, finish in u? 'idk! idk what that feels like!'

wow. im thinking uti. but, this fuckin dumbass wont stop having sex and bf wont keep her locked in the house except for school, even tho he knows she sleeps around! he hasnt taken her to the dr yet for birth control either! neither has bm!

oneoffour's picture

I would call her school MOnday morning and ask to speak to the school nurse or the school counsellor. They have a mandatory obligation to report this abuse. If she has had sez this may be an STD. And someone needs to gag and hog-tie those loser parents for allowing their daughter to be statuoraly raped!

Then I would pack up and leave. Any man who allows his 13 yr old daughter to have sex is not a good man.

alwaysanxious's picture

Yep UTI. That needs to be treated ASAP before it spreads to the kidneys. The parents are losers for turning their head about the sex. Report it to the school counselor. You can do it anonymously.

Lalena75's picture

I immediately thought she was saying it because her friend did till you said she is actively having sex. Take the girl to planned parenthood, over age 13 a parent isn't required. she needs an exam even just to rule out std's and see if she is pregnant and they can give her birth control it's free if your under 18 I believe. Get her to agree to the shot or something long term if she isn't already pregnant and they are really good at explaining things to young teens. I agree with the others on the parents are idiots burying their heads in the sand is probably the reason she's already having sex for attention and "love". Parents should be proactive and it looks like your all she's got to do that. Hoping for her and your families sake it's a uti.

StubbornEnough's picture

My daughter had a baby at 13. Baby was 2 pounds, and 11 weeks early. A 13 year old body can not handle the stresses of pregnancy. GET.HER.ON.BC. No excuses. An IUD, an implant- something!

I now have a 16 year old with an almost 3 year old, which of course means I am raising a precious grand daughter.

herewegoagain's picture

WTH is wrong with people nowadays...I thought loser at 17 with one kid and another on the way was bad...but then again, she started probably around 13 too! There crazy, crazy, crazy and lazy parents that don't seem to think about this...Oh my...I am so sorry, but I would DEFINITELY report this to the police...if she is 13...oh my...