Okay...I have two step daughters ages 9 and 5. Since their father and I have been married we have been in a custody battle with BM. We took BM back to court for custody of the children because she met another man and got pregnant (2nd man/2nd child since marraige to my husband). She moved an hour from us with the new BF and wanted the children to switch schools. We did not agree to that as it would mean that the kids would either have to live with her or we would have to drive them becasue we have a "week on/week off" parenting agreement. She has been ordered to drive them the hour to school on her weeks until court since she moved).

So BM's lawyer calls a few weeks ago and wants to settle. This is the settlement that they proposed:

BM gets the kids Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday except for one weekend a month when we will get them Friday night, Saturday and return them on Sunday. We will have the kids Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. She will continue to drive the kids the hour to school on the school days that she has them.

My question to you wise folks is "Do you see any problems with this arrangement?" I see many problems but I feel that I am being bias and was looking for an "outsiders" opinion. My husband and I are at a stalemate as we both see different positives and negatives with the arrangement. Im hoping that your opinions will give me some new insight. Thanks in advance.