Crazy is coming
So I have decided to term BM "crazy". She called me at 8:30 this morning saying she has been trying to get a hold of us and she coming to get SS. It's now 8:40 at night and she wont be here until 10:30 at the earliest.
She has threatened to kick DH a** and has threatened to shoot herself all in one phone call. She has threatened to take SS and run and no one would know where they were.
She is completely off her meds I think. (She is bipolar but I don't know if she is actually taking any, just used it to show how crazy she is acting).
She told DH first that she was moving back in with ExDH. Then when DH called her on it, she said she was moving in with her Grandma.
I can not wait for this all to be over. And if DH wins custody, we are probably going to have to start the potty training all over.
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If she has made threats to DH
If she has made threats to DH and to harm herself, I'd call the cops and let them know. I'd hate for her to have finally snapped and hurt SS in her delusion.
We have called them. They
We have called them. They said since she has custody, there is nothing they can do. We have no choice in letting him go with her. But if she does follow through and touches either DH or myself, charges will definitely will be filed.
It’s good to have it reported
It’s good to have it reported that she’s threatened suicide.
Honestly, every time she does it DH should be calling the authorities. If anything does happen there will be a record of her repeatedly threatening self harm.
BM used suicide as a way to control DH when they first split up. It was emotional blackmail on her part. Part of her manipulation tactics.
When I pointed out to him that she’d never kill herself or even attempt it because that would mean the kids would go live with him, he finally got it.
The last time she threatened it, he said go ahead. I’ll bring the kids to visit you in the pyshc ward.
Call DHSF or CPS. Whatever
Call DHSF or CPS. Whatever your child services agency is.
I would talk to a lawyer. A
I would talk to a lawyer. A parent threating suicide is grounds for refusing to turn over the child. She is "a danger to herself or others" the standard commitment criteria.
"Hello, police? My ex just
"Hello, police? My ex just threatened suicide and I am afraid for her and my son. I believe this is a credible threat."
Well she ended up never
Well she ended up never coming to get him so it was all for nothing. We haven't heard from her since 9:30p on Saturday. I informed the lawyer of everything that was said. DH has an appointment with the lawyer this Friday so maybe he will find out more. From the lawyers reaction, this weekend could have helped our case.