Well my friend went back online and he’s deleted his account ( this is osds husband whose been caught on online dating by one of my single friends), I still have the screen grab she sent with his photos on though lol. I’ve decided not to out him for now, mainly because it’s going to make things worse for me in terms of splitting from dh. I’d love nothing more to ruin things for osd but I’m going to bide my time. Who knows it may come out without me having to say a word? Things are not sounding great from limited conversations I’ve overheard. Then last night I’m sat with bs and osd calls dh she needed milk and her dh had her bank card.?? So off he goes 20km round trip to buy her milk because she didn’t even have $3 in cash?? This man is whipped and if I unleash datingate it will be worse. Saying that he’s now got a job working away so this is going to be happening much more amongst other stuff osd like to keep her men on a tight leash!!!

Dh has apologised to me but it’s too late, it’s 3 weeks nearly since my op and I look at him and feel nothing but contempt. At nearly 50 he behaves like a child at times until osd clicks her fingers. Not long now I’ve not given him a heads up but he knows it’s over he’s not even asked to move back in the bedroom. I’m keeping things civil for bs sake but as soon as I’m healed he will be gone!!