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I am a horrible person and DH needs to get his "b@$%" back from me according to BM

Daisymazy2's picture

Submitted by Daisymazy2 on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 5:13pm

BM has asked for DH to watch SD during Spring Break for a week while she goes on a cruise. BM has been going on these cruises for Spring Break for years. She also takes a trip out of the country once a year with her sister. DH will more than likely be working during that time and isn't going to be home most of the day. I work from home, so I will be here with my BS. I have said, "Nope, Not happening."

Due to SD's behavior, age 15, I refuse to allow her in my home especially around my BS. She likes to lie and call either social services or the police. She has lied about being raped multiple times and and lied about BM hitting her multiple times. She steals BM's credit cards and buys things online. She has HUGE meltdown temper tantrums even at school. The list goes on and on. She is seeing multiple counselors now for her behavior. I haven't been "blessed" to see her in years. SD has been seeing DH outside the home for awhile now. First, it was SD's choice to see DH outside of the home and now it is MY choice for her not to be here.

DH told BM that is wasn't possible for SD to be here over her Spring Break. Bm knows that I work from home. BM sent DH an email to tell him that he needs to get his Balls back from me. I never laugh so hard in my life. BM is so upset because NO ONE will watch SD for her to go on this cruise. Her parents can't watch SD. SD called social services on them and they are not allowed to be alone with SD. BM's friends refuse to watch her because SD called social services on one of BM's friends.

I guess BM is either stuck at home or will be taking SD with her on this cruise.

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thinkthrice's picture

Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 6:45pm

THIS!!

fairyo's picture

Submitted by fairyo on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 6:18pm

My DH wouldn't stop there- he'd drive her to the dock and give her spending money too!

lintini's picture

Submitted by lintini on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 12:36am

LOL!!! }:)

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Submitted by Exjuliemccoy on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 1:59am

Blum 3 }:) Blum 3 }:) Blum 3 }:)

Tiger7's picture

Submitted by Tiger7 on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 6:34pm

Wow - she's ticked cause no one wants to be around her little monster, huh? I don't blame you. I wouldn't have her in my home either.

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Submitted by IslandGal on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 8:58pm

Good on you for standing your ground and good on DH for not bending to BMs whim. She created 5he monster SD is..time to reap the benefits..or pain.

Guess no cruise for BM..or she can take her evil creation with her. Bon voyage!

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Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 9:38pm

Hahahahahahahahahahaha...too bad...sooooo sad BM.

Not the SM’s problem!!!!!

Smile

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 12:42am

oh Hon, keep DH's balls close and lock your purse..... BM might just get a hold of it and then DH caves and you are stuck with the little bitch for summer... nope hand onto those balls Hon and enjoy your SD free time...

BM can stay at home or take her daughter with, I would be absolutely evel and instigate with SD, asking her, why does your mother never want to take you, I think it's infair, if we could've afford it we would take all the kids with us, why are BM so selfish, BM is not allowing you any fun, you should demand going with, BM is using the CS dad's pay for your designer cloths and private school to holiday on..... why not confront her, it's your money not hers }:)

lintini's picture

Submitted by lintini on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 12:44am

The stars really aligned here and the karma bus has arrived!

Sorry not sorry BM!
I wouldn't be alive right now if I pulled any stunts like SD.

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Submitted by Teas83 on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 8:36am

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Harry's picture

Submitted by Harry on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 1:50am

BM is not giving her daughter any discipline for the lies she tells. And the life’s she has destroyed
BM is made her bed, now it’s her life. She should Just stay home and enjoy her daughter

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Submitted by Myss.Tique D'Off on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 2:19am

Good on you for saying no.
With her behaviour, why on earth would anyone want to watch SD? It is begging for trouble!

BM takes these cruises every year? She has had years to come up with a solution for the "kenneling" (LOL!!) of SD.
Triggered memories of Eustace of Courage the Cowardly Dog fame. I can see someone calling SD: Stupid Dog!! (SD is an abbrevation of Stupid Dog...)

Kes's picture

Submitted by Kes on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 2:53am

Submitted by Snowflake on Thu, 01/25/2018 - 7:03pm.
Most of the times, these bitter BM's play the withholding custody from Dad game. That creates a normal child who becomes a nightmare teenager. At which time the BM needs time away from said nightmare child that she created.

Exactly! We have had several pleas to take said nightmare child (SD22) to live with us, in the last 6 months. This is SO not happening.

Schadenfreude is now your friend, Daisymazy. Wink }:) Well said on saying no.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 11:33am

Daisy, I don't know about your DH, but my DH likes what I do to his ba!!s... }:)

Solutions for BM:

* take SD with her
* don't go on a cruise and take SD with her on vacation elsewhere
* stick SD into the psych ward for the duration of the cruise
* don't take the cruise, stay home with SD, and open a big ol' can of pout - not that BM will ever realize that SHE is directly responsible for the walking talking sh!t show that is SD.

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Submitted by MoominMama on Fri, 01/26/2018 - 12:41pm

All I have is 'No is a complete sentence'.