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Sailor's picture

Wow! It's been just over a year since I last posted on StepTalk - and what a year it's been. I have learned so much about step parenting and where I went right and where I went wrong. Mostly right of course. Biggrin

Would love to catch up even though - technically - I'm not a step parent anymore.

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Acratopotes's picture

hey hey hey yes of course I remember you......

how's it been, any new skids in your life Wink
(Sally)

Sailor's picture

Nooooooooo skids. Don't think I will ever go down that road again. Still waiting for divorce - should be done and dusted in about 6 weeks.

Yep - STILL waiting.

He started his affair 3 years ago - can you believe it? And he and ee-aw are still together.

Can't believe that I originally joined this site when SD was 7 or 8 and she is now 16. She has grown into one amazing young lady.

Acratopotes's picture

well I'm no longer SM as well......

can't say the same about brat turning into a amazing young lady.... she's 18 now

Sailor's picture

I'm sorry to hear that - the bit about former SD not turning into an amazing young lady Biggrin Biggrin - just kidding.

Anyone new in your life? Any new skids?

Acratopotes's picture

nope.. we split amonth ago lol....

I'm done with dating divorced fathers for life, going to clone myself as a male and then date again..

DPW's picture

Hello doll!!!!

Remember me? Don't post much anymore but still reading all these years later. We have been around for too long, eh? lol

Catch us up!

Sailor's picture

I LOVE you!!!!!

Will catch everyone up soon. Just busy with final details regarding divorce settlement so I am very distracted. Just wanted to "show my face" and say hi.

DPW's picture

Ditto!

I have found myself in another step parenting situation but with a really good guy and two adult step kids who I really enjoy. Both fur babies have passed on unfortunately. Sad

Can't wait to hear more.

Sailor's picture

So sorry about the furbabies. I still have Timothy the cat and am retaining custody of him.

It's so uncanny that when we extricate ourselves from toxic or negative people and energy, how we open ourselves up to fabulous people who we love and love us back. Good on you!

notsurehowtodeal's picture

So glad to hear from you! I hope you are doing well, please update when you can. Still seeing the sexy guy from a year ago?

Sailor's picture

No, he turned out to be a jerk. I am in a wierd place, but much happier. The world is my Oyster. I could just hop on a yacht and sail the world, I could move to an exotic island and scuba dive amazing seas. It's so great to have no baggage. Single, no kids, a clear conscience and open to the most unusual adventures that await.

Welcome to the best part of my life.

notsurehowtodeal's picture

Sorry he was a jerk - I have to admit I have had some great sex with men who turned out to be bad for me. Good you recognized it and got out. I love your attitude - I hope you can soon have one of those adventures!

Indigo's picture

Hey, Sailor ! Of course we remember you. In fact, I've mentioned your story periodically to other new posters who write about new skids appearing out of the blue.

Been wondering how you've been. Smile

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Hi Sailor!! Always a treat to hear from stephell survivors and how they're doing. Good to hear the world is your lovely oyster. Biggrin

Willow2010's picture

Hey! I was actually thinking about you the other day and was hoping things were moving along for you. I really hope you took your EX to the cleaners.

Glad you are better!

DaizyDuke's picture

Glad you're doing well! Your story was one of the most horribly heartbreaking I remember around here. So glad that you are in a happy place now and doing YOU!

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

Hi Sailor! Yes, I remember you. So glad to hear you're loving life, step-free!!