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BM tried to hug DH

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Submitted by Ninji on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 8:36am

This happened two weeks ago but DH just told me over the weekend.

Apparently, when BM came to drop off SS, she brought her new boyfriend with her.

BM and new boyfriend (NB) followed SS to our front door and SS closed the door on them. Biggrin Good boy. He has been told not to let anyone in our house, even BM.

Anyway, NB wanted to introduce himself to DH. DH told him that was nice because the last 15 guys didn't have the balls to do it. Biggrin DH said BM gave him a dirty look after that comment.

When they went to leave, NB stuck out his hand to shake DH's hand and BM went to hug him. He said he blocked BM and shook NB's hand and BM gave him another dirty look. Biggrin

Why would she try to hug him? Eight years and all of a sudden they are buddies and hugging. Hell no. I think she was just trying to show off for NB. Either way I wish I could have seen it.

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notsobradybunch's picture

Submitted by notsobradybunch on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 8:59am

That was for show. Our BM likes to portray she and DH as if they are wonderful friends...they're not.

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 11:51am

I agree it was part of the act. Each time BM over here got a new guy all the sudden she wanted to pretend everything was nice. She'd start talking about how we all need to get together to meet and spend time with the kids. The second the guy is gone we are evil monsters just trying to destroy her life.

At least she's stopped trying to get SO to go back to her like last summer. Go screw some guy for a few weeks saying about how perfect it all is and how the kids have a new daddy. When it fell apart she'd try calling him crying and screaming that he's destroying their family because he wont get back with her. We'd get a laugh about it.

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 2:51pm

OMG BM trying to hug SO would result in a palm to her forehead. I doubt he would even be gentle about it.

Then we'd have to cut his hand off because it would have BM cooties. :sick:

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 9:13pm

Oh I know this one from experience--BM was just playing nice in front of the new guy so he doesn't get scared and run off. I read an article about narcissist and how they like to fool their new targets into believing they aren't the problem or even better try to make them simplify their overly conflicted relationship with their Exes so the new guy doesn't know he's walking into a shitstorm until it's too late.

It took the first guy 8 months, the second guy less than that but they purposely got pregnant so he stuck around for 3 on and off, this newest guy has been around for a little of a year and I can tell he's starting to see her crazy peeping through.