Any ideas?
My sd is 13 and she wrote a book about my ds getting killed. She likes to write about him dying or being a crazed killer. Dh and I have gone round and round over this but nothing changes she just writes it at bms house and then posts it online. This time though bm paid to have the book published and sent copies to all of dhs family. I destroyed the copy sd brought here and dh and I had a blow out over it. I will not tolerate this bull in my home. Sd called dh yesterday all excited because bm took her to her middle school library and convinced them to display a copy of her book and a picture of her. They are going to have a ceremony where sd dedicates the book to the school and put it in the school newspaper. We are all invited to attend. Dh was excited about it and proud and I shut him down real quick. I'm done with this crap!!! I told dh if he goes and supports this then our marriage is over. She admits it is my son who dies in the book and she describes in detail how he is murdered. I'm done. I want to stop the school from displaying this trash and she told dh they were going to the county library next. This isn't right and i need to stop it.
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So I read your other blog and
So I read your other blog and it appears that SD has been writing this stuff for almost 2 years now?? You also thought 2 years ago that your marriage was over because DH wanted to move to be closer to skids? So I'm assuming that did not happen??
I think you should pursue possible charges for bullying. It seems to me that this type of behavior and the fact that it's been going on for years would fall under some type of bullying definition. I would start researching what can be done in your state.
https://www.stopbullying.gov/laws/index.html
We moved closer to his kids
We moved closer to his kids and he now has 40% custody. I wonder if I can have her book removed from the school due to bullying my son. I'm going to read up on this and then call the principal. Thanks!
Oh man, forget about having
Oh man, forget about having the book removed from the library! I think you need to have your son (and you) removed from this family! What exactly are you getting out of this relationship? Your H sounds like a dick if he's condoning her behavior by proudly displaying "book" and acting like this is no big deal.
I'm kind of curious though how a 13 year old manages to write a book well enough that it gets published?? Most adults have a difficult time doing this and most 13 year olds I know (especially ones who act poorly like your SD) are ignorant AF and can't write much beyond IDK and K. :?
Oh gotcha. So it's like a
Oh gotcha. So it's like a glorified essay and BM had it printed up and handed out copies. That's dumb. Who does that?
Braggart BM who is proud of
Braggart BM who is proud of the demon child she is raising?
Actually, BM may want to reconsider what she has done...she is assisting this minor child in these hateful bullish mechanisms.
She uses his first and middle
She uses his first and middle name in real life for his first and last name in the book.
Is your son both yours and
Is your son both yours and your husband's?
That is really creepy.
No. We don't have any kids
No. We don't have any kids together.
That seems messed up for a
That seems messed up for a middle school library to put a book on display about a young boy being murdered... :?
It's a murder mystery which I
It's a murder mystery which I guess they are okay with.
It's children murdering
It's children murdering children. Being kids can't take scissors to school for art class that can actually cut paper (let alone people), I fail to believe the school would promote this young author and her 13yr old warped little mind.
The book wasn't 'published' as in the traditional sense. BM took it and had it printed and paid for the 'honor'.
You already burned the book you had at your house, or I would suggest you and your lawyer take the thing to the school board and make your compliant. The girl is using violence on children and a real person's first and last name in her crazed writing.
Then go full blown with a letter to the main newspaper in your locale and address the idea the school district is promoting and therefore agreeing with not only bullying a child but all out physical violence.
I don't particularly 'buy' your creepy SD saga (what the heck is wrong with you? You went from living far away and Dad seeing this kid 12dys a year and never in your home to moving close by and taking 40% custody). Yeah, thou protest too much and then jump right in offering up the target . *whatever*
hold on..... you are over
hold on..... you are over reacting....
listen now, get a copy, signed by SD..... and if anything should ever happen to DS... you have her signed acknowledgement about her arranging it or doing it. It's evidence in my eyes...
what does DS think about it all mmmm... I would take him with and he can cheekily tell every one, SD is not a good killer cause he's still alive.....
You will have to fight this cleverly, as soon as you support this and keep all the evidence and DS gets on board, making comments like this.. SD will stop cause it's not what she want, it's the wrong reaction.
If DS is never killed... he can get the book and for years to come say.. Oh my step sister is a published author, her mother paid for it to be published, she kept on killing me off...
Is this a joke? Why are you
Is this a joke? Why are you still there? What advice would you give a friend in this situation? Seriously - your number one responsibility is to protect your son from harm - psychological and physical. Get the F*&# out!!!!!
YES Elizamen These are the
YES Elizamen
These are the p0osts I wish we could track and report.
Wow she wrote a book?! At
Wow she wrote a book?! At 13?! My teen cant write a paragragh...let alone get off couch!
I dont know how to feel, lots of authors use people in their life for their stories...
Do you feel as though your
Do you feel as though your son is under threat from sd (or someone else)?
What kind of a relationship do the two kids have?
Is this for real?
Is this for real?
Have an artist create a
Have an artist create a painting of your sd getting killed in a gruesome manner, blow it up, and hang it in your living room. Tell DH it's just art and smile whenever you look at it. Lol
Sorry, that shit wouldn't fly with me...little author psychopants would be banned from my house, and her daddy too. If she's not a budding psycho, she's a bitch in the making, and she is so bullying both you and your son, with the blessing of her dad and mom. You don't have to tolerate that.
Omg! Hilarious!! I had
Omg! Hilarious!!
I had actually thought more about this, as i was around my 8 year old talking about lego video games, but he made it sound even worse as he is retelling it!!
I dont think it is ok that she used real name, or says its the kid.
Yeah bm kind of messed up...she should not have made copies.
I love this painting idea!! Id do it..lol
This is sickening and I hope
This is sickening and I hope you take up DaisyDuke's suggestion.
What in the world....???
What in the world....??? Where did OP go?
NO WAY would I permit my kids around this.
Is this for real? Did you go
Is this for real? Did you go to the school and talk to the principal? If not, why not?