We had the skids from the 6th until 12th. DH brought them to BM on the 12th and she was supposed to bring SS back to us on the 16th.

On Friday, DH gets a text from BM stating that her husband has moved out (not the first time) and can DH please pick SS up from her house on Sunday. DH told her No. She then said she really needed the favor as she will be cooking on Sunday. DH told her No. She then said she would give him gas money. He still told her No.....See, her husband was the one that always dropped SS off to us while she sat at home on her ass.

I was so impressed with DH. I told him I was proud of him for standing up to her.

Earlier that day, he told me to contact the lawyer about changing the CS. I asked him if this was going to change anything. He told me no. It was her problem and he still wanted me to contact the lawyer.

Then yesterday out of nowhere, BM sends DH this text "Before you ask, we are divorcing because he is refusing to grow up and be a man"

DH ignored her.

Again, I told him I was proud of him and it was so refreshing to see this. He said unless it has to do with the kids and something important with the kids. He doesn’t want anything to do with her.

In the past, he and BM was all up in each other's business. We've had many many fights about it.

Invasion of the body snatchers?