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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:29am

Honestly had a complete break down. Why? Because BM2 is all in a snit because I am...wait for it...decent to her son. Silly stupid horrible me.

No I shouldn't worry what she thinks but damn I'm tired of the drama. She has been in my house, going through our cards, putting feelers out to my DH (and got shot down, but still), pumps SS14 for info and then gets pissy and jealous because I'm a better SM than she'll ever dream to be as a parent. Yes DH told her to cut the shizz.

I know it's her issue and I shouldn't care but DAMN THIS SHIZZ GETS OLD!!!!

Honest to Dog I could pack a bag and live in a studio dump and be happy because I'd be by myself with none of this absolute CRAP to deal with.

I won't because I know I'm being stupid but it really is the tiny straw, added to 4,873,977,855 already piled up straws that broke this SM's back!

Thankless, hopeless, heartless b.s. that will never end. F&*K!!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:41am

good Dog girl in all my years knowing you I've never seen you this upset, not even with BS...

calm down... handing you some whisky, wine will not do and you better start drinking soon or you will not make it...
that's why I drink Wink

Now that we got that behind out backs....confront the cow.... face to face, and say to her... listen you filthy whore, while you where gallivanting in Cypress and earning the name of fleet mattress I was the one looking after your child, not you, you did not even send him money or anything.... so do not come back and pretend you are the mother of the year, you are not... DH will never touch your ass again, too much wear an tear I am afraid, and do not even try and set foot into my house again, I will get a restraining order against you... keep your effing mouth shut about me and how I treat your son and stay out of our lives....

tell her exactly what a whore she is and tell her to go back to cypress, there's a couple of new fleet ships she needs to work over...

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:21am

Lol DH told her as much as all of that. That's why she's full of butthurt and trying to make me the monster that everyone knows that I'm not.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:29am

well she can tell any one who wants to listen.... warn her... you will also start telling people who she really is....

social media is so easy to put people straight lol....

and I do not belief for a minute any one will believe her..... how's SS doing with it all

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:50am

SS hasn't got a clue. One good thing about a kid on the spectrum, they don't pick up on subtle hostility and mind games. It's life as usual for him.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:53am

wonderful lol..... so nothing she does will ever help her cause not even her own child listens..

I think it's time you start playing with this woman....

open a fake tinder profile, be a man... start flirting with her, only problem you are from Tasmania....
we will all chip in for a one way ticket to tasmania lol....... send her to hell.... with no return date..

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:25am

I know you're saying it with compassion and concern.

Honestly, she was shot down by DH so beautifully, it really isn't a concern for me. If she wants to keep reminding herself of the nice, wonderful, loving relationship and home we have...have at it.

Last Sunday, when she dropped off SS14,she came in and saw the 'Stepmum' SS14 gave me for Mother's Day. This is all the stuff that sends her in a tailspin.

It's frustrating that she takes offense to begin with. She's the one that left DH, always telling him he wasn't good enough. Yet, the second he moves on, she demands he pines away for her for a thousand lifetimes. It just gets old.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:48am

with this woman yes..... Cooookies and I come from years back lol... via ST.... we know each others stories well and her BM is really the fleet c@nt in Cypress, BM only moved back home a couple off months ago...

cooookies was the one who had that teen boy for more years then his own mother, coookies was the one suffering a teen boy pooping his pants while playing tv games, too lazy to go to the loo, well her kid was caught watching Step mum porn lol.... we have sole rights to pissing off cooookies, and teasing her... BM@ should butt out, coookies is ours!!!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:49am

tape it to a punching bag.... and go crazy... this way you loose weight as well and tone nicely...

also will help in real life kicking the shyt out of her

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:27am

Ha! I just might be purchasing a dart board AND punching bag! Dirol

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Submitted by ESMOD on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:51am

Going through our cards?

I'm not sure what that means.

In any case, I can commiserate. My DH's EX would ramp up the crazy the more that she though I might be doing for her girls or the more that she thought they might like me.

It was sad because it was really the girls that were getting the brunt of it. She would make visitation difficult and since she was so high conflict, it made visitations hell. Eventually, I learned to be more low-key and actually did less for the kids and things were easier. (no new clothes etc...)

I'm curious as to why she is being allowed in your home. That is a boundary your husband and SS should be able to enforce and you do not need to allow.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 8:55am

BM returned from Cyprus.... made a pass at DH, at the front door.... DH invited her in and she saw all the happy anniversary cards... went through those... and left promptly..

DH wanted to show her how nice his wife is and how happy they are and he told her to get lost with her flirting..

at the time Coookies was not bothered cause now BM knew exactly where DH's loyalties are .....

but it seems like it only made the b!tch more determined

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:30am

The home thing doesn't bother me. Like I mention above, if she wants to willingly see how great our life is, have at it.

It's just frustrating that she never lets us be. If it wasn't the cards or being shot down...it would be continually pumping SS for info and sending her usually emails and text of b.s. and smearing our names through the mud. If we block her in one road, she'll find 7 more to travel down.

It's exhausting.

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:40am

I am stuck on the fact that she enters your home. In Texas we have laws and ways of dealing with that..... permanently.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:45am

For me it's just not a hill to die on. DH did more than a stellar job telling her exactly where she stands and it's nowhere near him. That's all it took.

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:46am

Not invited as such. She comes in when she picks up/drops off SS14. How much of a fool she wants to make herself is her problem.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:49am

what about getting yourself a nice little Rottweiler..... and teach him to pee on her every time she tries to enter the yard....

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Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:02am

oh cooookies....

((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:18am

((((hugs)))) Thank you everyone. I really just needed to let out steam before I stabbed something.

LOL Acra you can tease me all you like, I know you're just being a sweetheart. Though I'd never tell anyone that Wink

BM2 is just seething because since she's moved back here, I think she had a vision of reclaiming what she views as hers (DH and SS14). She was promptly shot down by DH, on her birthday nonetheless, which is extra karma at it's finest. She admitted she was told by SS14 that he loves DH, loves me and is very happy with us.

So it's all because her evil plan backfired quite grandly in her face that she's targeting me. I'm just flippin' sick of it. I need a holiday somewhere warm and sunny and full of gourmet coffee and cheese!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:32am

I know of a place warm, sunny and sandy... Wink Wink

cheese - checked
coffee - checked }:)

you know where I am... take out that new broom I send you and hop over lady

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Submitted by Cooooookies on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:48am

BS is doing good in school, has a part-time job and just busy being a happy and typical 16 year old boy.

He comes here for 2 weeks in July and I can't wait!!!

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Wed, 04/05/2017 - 9:50am

Good news...... you have to give us an update on how the visit went....

I still say this kid will ask sooner or later to re locate to you..... maybe find him a college there?