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I HATE him and his girlfriend!!

Fatamy's picture

Submitted by Fatamy on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 8:43am

DD had her visitation with her dad this last weekend and his girlfriend and her 3 kids live there. Thankfully the bullying from one of the kids seems to have stopped. I know it was low but I told dd to be rude back when that girl said mean things to her or about her when she could hear them. I guess the girl didn't like dd saying things back to her. Now her dads gf is being mean to her. The gfs brother took her 3 kids out on his boat this weekend and dd was not allowed to go because and I quote, "My brother doesn't need you accusing him of touching you." She said that to dd. DD didn't need to go or be invited but she also didn't need to hear her dads gf say that to her. I took her to her therapist yesterday and he said he will testify in court if we need him to. My attorney has filed and we are just waiting right now.

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Submitted by Ninji on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 8:50am

Does your Ex know what is going on and what was said to your daughter by the girlfriend?

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Submitted by Fatamy on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:00am

DD said that he was standing there. I sent him an email letting him know what was said and that I was taking her to her therapist if he wanted to join them (not me and them, just them. I was very clear I wouldn't be in the session). I got a response back saying he doesn't want me and I should move on with my life, that looking desperate is a turn off ect.. I'm not sure why he thinks I would ever look twice at him again.

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Submitted by Ninji on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:02am

LOL. Sounds like my skids BM. She used to accuse DH all the time of not being over her...When he was trying to get her to actually be a parent.

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Submitted by Fatamy on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:04am

That is it exactly! If he were the last man on earth I still wouldn't look at him. I will never be interested in him again! If he would just do right by dd I would never contact him again.

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Submitted by ESMOD on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 8:58am

1. Has your daughter accused someone of touching her?

2. Did your EX go with GF on brother's boat or did he stay home with DD?
TBH, unless it's a big boat, it sounds like it would have been crowded with him, his sister and her three kids.. plus whoever else may have been there that you didn't mention.

3. I would make sure my EX heard what his GF said about his child. If GF can't be trusted to treat her with respect.. maybe EX needs to better monitor the relationship? Could be put in an email to him.

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Submitted by Fatamy on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:02am

My dd was when ex dh left her with sd at an off campus party. Gf's kids went on the boat and dd stayed with dh and did yard work. I don't care that dd didn't get to go especially since I don't know him and how safety conscious he is. It was what was said to dd that is the problem.

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Submitted by Thumper on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:14am

More to this story?

But your ex's girlfriend is right, he (the brother) does NOT need anyone stating falsehoods.

You are low to suggest to a child to be rude back at anyone.

THEN to boot call your lawyer to file something? File what? What is your therapist going to testify about that you told your child to misbehave?

grrrrrrrr

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Submitted by Ninji on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:35am

If I read her post history correct, her DD was allowed by the father to visit with SD at a collage campus. DD was violated while there. SD refused to share any information about what happened and had to hire a lawyer. Now new girlfriend hates DD.

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Submitted by JustAgirl42 on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:40am

Can you imagine how that would feel if you actually WERE violated and then told you couldn't go somewhere because you might falsely accuse someone of it?? Sad Sad Sad

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Submitted by WalkOnBy on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 11:49am

You are assuming that the kid was actually assaulted. Remember, no police investigation that resulted in charges, no charges pending nor filed....

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Submitted by Ninji on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 9:59am

Maybe the lesson she is learning is that she has to keep her mouth closed if it ever happens again because the adults in her life are worthless shits?

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Submitted by Totalybogus on Wed, 03/08/2017 - 11:47am

I actually agree with her. I believe the child should be allowed to defend herself. If someone is being mean to her, she should know that SOMEONE supports her in sticking up for herself and giving as good as she gets. Why should she teach her to be a door mat?