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Stepmomed's picture

A few of you think I'm trolling fine you are entitled to your opinions but the truth doesn't need to be defended. Did my SS14 attempt to molest my kids yes! Does he have a low iq of 69? Yes!!! Did DH meet with an attorney to discuss terminating his rights yes!!! After his rights are terminated he will no longer be financially responsible for SS14. Yes, BM agreed to sign whatever paperwork needs to be signed to help DH terminates his rights. I came here hoping for some advice, encouragement or even just some support; thank you to the people who gave me much needed support and advice.

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Flying.Purple.Step.Monster's picture

This is the type of site where you take the support you need and just let the rest go. I know it's hard not to let other people's opinions get to you but you will drive yourself crazy if you let it get to you.

Tuff Noogies's picture

admin deleted a bunch for you.

there were some good questions raised by some posters, tho'. please keep us posted.

Stepmomed's picture

Thank you!!!! Every time I think I'm making progress with this something happens that triggers me being emotional. I took a leave of absence from work because I was mentally unstable. I'm back at work now but my checks are just enough to cover bills and DH is trying as well. We can't afford Christmas this year which is breaking my heart.

DaizyDuke's picture

People need to walk a mile baby. Walk a fucking mile in your DH's shoes. My SS did far, far less, than God forbid molest our BS6, and I don't want him in my home. And guess what this is your husband's decision to make. He made it. Who are we to sit on our Judgmental Judy asses and say if what he did is right our wrong? HE is the ONLY one who truly knows. I'm sure it's a decision he did not take lightly.

I mean, keep skid around and risk further abuse to his other children? Then how would he feel about himself. It really is a no win situation for the man and I feel bad for him.

Stepmomed's picture

CPS actually asked if we would allow him to move back in?! DH was furious!!! He asked them would they allow a predator back in they home and they said no.

IslandGal's picture

Screw the negative nellies and focus on you and yours. It was your DHs choice and he made it..done. i know that my SO would do the exact same thing with SD16 but Aussie doesnt do emancipation. Hang in there darl..and keep posting. There are more here with good advice, experience and support..than the low life bullying trolls who obviously have nothing better to do and no lives whatsoever.