Ss is having friends spend the night for his belated birthday. Dh was working weekends, then people were sick..so its late but this is his weekend(im not being involved)

Well dh is going over times and details with ME!! Why?

So i call ss out of his room... dh looks annoyed with me, uh. Its not my party.
So dh is asking how he is getting the info to the kids, and it needs to be done tomorrow-no school thur-fri... ss has made if clear he wants to text them the info..ok whatever..as long as they get it right?!

Well dh starts pushing him to get invites or print out invites..ss is like rolling his eyes, throwing attitude.

Im not sure what was said but next thing i know ss stomps up to room, dh is irritated FINE ill go to the dollar store and get invites after i worked all day, but ill go...then he directs it at me like im supposed to jump up and say "ill go, ill help you."

Uuhhh. Efff that.

This tween is 13 he can print out three invites, if he is giving you brattyness tell HIM. Im over him directing crap at me... he wants to text his friends deal with it!!

Also im pissed he is letting him invite this one kid over that we are not fond of! The last time ss was around this kid he was real handsy...he had to lean on ss, push him, ss spent the whole night RUNNING from him..but they are friends?! Why invite a kid you run from, because you cant tell him to stop touching you, also ive seen the text between them, this kid invites him where ever or says meet me ss says no i hate you, no cant...but you invite him to your house????

I just picture a whole night of ss running in and out of his room to get away from handsy boy...

I want non of it- im taking my son to a halloween party that i might get tipsy at and cant drive home-opps!