My Overbearing MIL sent me a text earlier asking if we could please have a family dinner she was making tacos. I politely declined 1. I have been trying to disengage from her she makes me nuts 2. I'm on a diet which I had already mentioned to her several times 3. House to myself? Yes please
I then get a text from my SO saying his mom wants to do a family taco dinner, I told him yes I know I declined no biggie go have tacos and have fun. He said I could still make a taco salad. I again said no thanks

So then I get another text from MIL saying she really wishes she could see me with a sad face emoji, I ignore it. The question was asked and politely answered plus I was at work. Then about an hour later I get another text form her saying she had a talk with my step son about his cell phone and responsibility. ( he received a phone for Christmas and lost it. He was told he would not get another. He needed to find the original phone this was discussed w her. No one was to get him another phone) so step son is going on a trip with his other grandma and she wants him to have a phone to keep in touch is her excuse and she said she hopes this is ok with me bc I am the step mom. Ummmmmm if u wanted to know if it was ok you would have asked if it was OK BEFORE you had the conversation with step son. You obviously don't care what I think and want to appear like the good guy with sending me a half assed text after the fact. That's obviously why she wanted me to go over there and eat tacos so bad , she wanted to talk about the phone. What kind of awful person offers tacos with a motive?