FFS, does anyone ever listen to me? Twins had sleepover Thursday night, which she picked them up from. Before our sleeping bags, pillows, toothbrushes, etc...walked out the door, I took a picture of all the stuff and told DH that it would absolutely not be returning in entirety. I suggested either telling twins to leave stuff at sleepover house or not sending it...he pooh-poohed me and off they went.

Today he emailed her and asked her to make sure that all stuff was ready to come back when he picks them up to celebrate DS's birthday tomorrow. Of course, email is responded to with a comment about how one of the sleeping bag liners is hers, and how sneaky he was to take it when they divorced SEVEN YEARS AGO. This is the woman who stole and then lied about large expensive pieces of furniture that were his long before their marriage. Each time twins take something to her house that was either DH's before they got married or purchased by DH during their marriage or has been purchased by this household, it never returns- from towels to camping equipment to Pyrex to kids' clothes. Maybe I'll start sending stuff there that I actually want to get rid of! Maybe that will be a fun experiment that will simmer my boiling blood down a bit. After all, it's only STUFF but the fact that she continually steals things from this household makes me nuts..and the fact that DH thinks I'm nuts when I suggest not sending stuff there...I find it all really annoying!