I just got a report from a mom at my SS's school that she saw SS holder a girl by her collar and growling in her face. Later with the same girl he was fighting over something and then had to sit out for awhile. Last week we got a report that he kicked a different little girl. BM said last time she wanted him in therapy it was because he was attacking her (he was 4 at the time). Well now BM wants him in therapy and in every after school program possible. I have no idea what is going on in the other home. I know his stepdad has gotten physically aggressive with me in the recent past. As well as, both BM and her husband have gotten physical with each other in the past. BM is and will always be the victim so I only believe half of what she says. Like she yells at me and I am the one who is so mean to her. I have no idea what is going on with him or what to do. Any advice or anyone been through something similar?