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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Tue, 03/22/2016 - 1:43pm

I have been putting feelers out there for a new job recently. I love where I work but honestly I can only do this job here forever. There are no promotion opportunities. Well this week I got 2 interviews. One would be fine but one I would LOVE to work there. It is the type of company I can see myself staying with for a long time. Good Vibes that all goes well.

Poor SS

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Fri, 02/12/2016 - 9:45am

Today on they way to school SS is talking (like normal) but he starts talking about his Stepdad and why he no longer likes him. SS goes "he throws things at me a lot when he gets bad" I just sit and listen stories like this come out a lot. Well he keeps going and says "(Stepdad) threw a basketball at me and it hit me in the face. Then my nose started bleeding. He was so mad that I threw the basketball in the basket when I was told to put it away."

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 02/10/2016 - 12:20pm

I am feel better today not as down as before. Now I am just starting to get stressed over everything up coming. I am making a list of what is stressing me.

1. Closing on our house. The people who work for the builder suck you have to push them to fix anything.

2. Moving. Unpacking our storage unit sounds awful.

3. SS has a thing at the school coming up. I haven't had to be around BM in almost 6 months (amazing) and well I have to be around her and her husband.

Feeling Guilty about being down

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Tue, 02/09/2016 - 12:40pm

Yesterday I blogged about just feeling down. (Feel free to read if you want) Well today I now feel guilty for feeling down.

Things are honestly going pretty good. Got great news about keep SS in his school when we move and I had a great workout. Today DH moved forward on a job he wants but also today was tough for him. He had to explain his past and just being a screw up as a teenager so now he thinks he won't move forward in the process. I honestly want to cry for him. He just feels so stuck.

Feeling a bit down

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Mon, 02/08/2016 - 3:16pm

Right now I should be so excited DH and I are getting ready to move into our home we built. But I just feel down. Part of me just wants to cry. Nothing is really happening other then the stress of a loan and house. I am stressed about giving BM our new address (DH legally has to) and all the craziness she will start once she sees the house. I am just down and I have no idea why.

SS might have gotten the puppy he has been promised for years.

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Mon, 01/18/2016 - 3:57pm

At the last exchange BM brought a puppy. She has been telling SS that he was getting a puppy since I (and my dog) moved in with DH 4 years ago. SS (who is 7) kept saying "doggy, doggy look mom a doggy" (Dog was in the car) Who in their right mind buys a puppy for a child? SS has told us before the dog he is getting he will be responsible for. God lord these people amaze me you really think a 7 year old that can't keep a toy for more then a day without it getting lost can take care of a puppy.

P.S. Nope this dog will not being coming to our house EVER.

When people you look up to divorce

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Submitted by Stepmom09 on Wed, 12/23/2015 - 12:33pm

Recently, a women I know from a church group who was a mentor for women with young children announced that she is getting a divorce. My heart goes out to her and I am shocked. They have been married 25 years. They have teenage kids. I am not sure what to say to her. I as well as other women have turned to her over the years for advice.

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