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My ex's psycho woman

momof3smof2's picture

I've been quiet for most of the month because the level of psycho that my ex's girlfriend has brought to our lives has increased exponentially.

The end game was her breaking into my house. My fucking house! While we were out of town, she got in my back yard, broke a window and entered my house to go through my things. Thankfully, I had a kick ass security system added that she didn't know about, and the police picked her up after I got a call on my cell from the security company and told them I was out of town.

My ex is now kissing my ass with "I didn't know she was like this" etc. Neither kid will talk to him, and I just don't care anymore.

The rest of my month has been spent bleaching everything in my home.

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momof3smof2's picture

I'm absolutely pressing charges. She's still in jail. No one to bail her out.

momof3smof2's picture

I think you're confused. I'm biomom in this situation. The unstable girlfriend of my kids dad is who broke into my home.

My kids are no longer speaking to their dad.

Disneyfan's picture

Why in the world would the OP protect that crazy woman???? Hopefully she is encouraging the kids to work on their relationship with their dad.

momof3smof2's picture

I have posted regarding the harassment from their dad after I emailed him screenshots of his girlfriend's posts. He's been pretty awful to our kids over the situation. Some of the things he said to them will likely hurt for a very long time, if not always. Time might allow them to recover a relationship, but I'm not so sure right now.

momof3smof2's picture

He did know about her previous actions. I sent him the screen shot proof of it. That sent him on a tizzy of verbal abuse to me and our kids. That's why they are angry with him.

momof3smof2's picture

Because there's zero reason for me too hide it. One of my kids is an adult, the other is nearly an adult. Both have restraining orders against this woman. Because of the break in, my husband, his kids with his ex and my adopted daughter now also have restraining orders. Thankfully, my husband's ex isn't having a fit over this mess.

momof3smof2's picture

My kids are angry at their father because of his actions. It has nothing to do with me.

hereiam's picture

This is the woman who wrote horrible things to your daughter on FB, right? And then your ex basically defended her or at least, did not feel that she did anything wrong?

Your ex did not bail her out of jail? Hee, hee.

Considering the ages of your kids, yeah, they can decide for themselves how they deal with their father and his girlfriend's bullshit, that is not on you.

This bitch is really a nutcase. What did she think this would accomplish? What grown woman would think this was worth it? I have never had any desire to go into my DH's ex-wife's house, invited or not. Something is seriously wrong with her.

twoviewpoints's picture

What an unstable nutcase their father let into their lives :jawdrop:

I don't blame the kids at all for being angry at him. Ten years of pretty much smooth sailing and boom, Dad finds a psycho new girlfriend. No, this man caused his own problems. If the Facebook drama leading to the graduation party fiasco wasn't bad enough, his unwavering support of the GF with all the texts and calls attacking them did him in. Then Psycho Lady invades the privacy and sense of security one should have in their own home.

NoWireCoatHangarsEVER's picture

Wait. The nutjob who signed in under a cousin's name and went off on you and your daughter when your daughter graduated highschool... and then the same one who showed up at the party after graduation and caused a scene when they were uninvited?!?! That one??? And then your ex husband was tryinng to make your still minor child skip her job and force her to go to visitation after they alienated all the kids by their pyscho behavior on facebook and at the party?? that one!?!?! Oh my god!!!! I would blast her mugshot all over that cousin's facebook page... ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NoWireCoatHangarsEVER's picture

and if I were your kids, I would have NO relationship with my father after he backed up that crazy and behaved that way at my highschool graduation. NONE whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!!!