SO has scheduled with BM to have a kid free weekend next weekend because I will be going out of town for a month and this will give us a little time together.
Last night SO tells me that SD called and she's soooo bored at BM's house (he says this to me several days a week...I don't give a Fuck. I wish I had months off of work) Anyway, she ask to go to a sleepover this weekend. He tells her that she would have to stay with BM and have BM take her because it close to BM's house but far from our house. Somehow they start talking about the kid free weekend and how they will just switch it to this weekend instead of next weekend.
As soon as those words were out of his mouth I was pissed...He loves to re-plan our shit with SD and then tell me I'm controlling when I get pissed about it.
I calmly remind him that he is picking up Skids Thursday (something else I'm not happy about) because he is taking SD to orthodontist on Friday....I told him that does not constitute a kid free weekend to me....He agree and said he also didn't want to miss Father's Day with Skids. THEN WHY GIVE SD A CHOICE...Tell her NOOOOOO. It won't kill her to hear no.
FF to this morning on the way to work...SO is talking about SD and the orthodontist. Telling me how the guy he works with took his son for a consultation to such and such guy and maybe he should go there too. And he didn't want to pay for braces (because BM will help with ZERO percent of this bill) several different times for SD because she still has baby teeth...Fine....BUT, I had braces when I met SO, had them for the first two years we were together. I already told him that I went to a couple of places before settling on a certain Dr and told him he may want to get a consult that him. He was really kind, professional and didn't try to drown me with extra expenses like some places do. I went to the guy for 4 years. I know what I'm talking about. He completely blew me off. As soon as some guy from work that didn't even get braces on his kid, suggest something, he's all over it. SOOOO annoying. I'm all for getting a couple opinions and seeing which Dr he and SD are comfortable with, but damn why does the guy from works opinion mean so much more than mine.
This is the third weekend in one month that we have had Skid's an each day or more. I'm so ready to go away for work next month.
We had to stop telling BM when we had plans or ask for her to keep them. She screwed it up every single time she had advanced warning.
The weekend of my DDs wedding, 3 years ago. BM was told by me, by DSO, by the skids that I had family coming in and staying at my house, adults, no kids. The skids could come to the wedding but DSO would bring them back afterward (before we got too drunk). I'm at the venue and DSO arrives and first thing out of his mouth....BM is going to visit OSS in juvie tomorrow and we have to keep the kids. BM hadn't visited OSS in 6 months and decides to go that 1 Saturday we needed her.
I will never forget that stunt she pulled. I was so pissed I did call her out on doing that to us.
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SO has scheduled with BM to
SO has scheduled with BM to have a kid free weekend next weekend because I will be going out of town for a month and this will give us a little time together.
Last night SO tells me that SD called and she's soooo bored at BM's house (he says this to me several days a week...I don't give a Fuck. I wish I had months off of work) Anyway, she ask to go to a sleepover this weekend. He tells her that she would have to stay with BM and have BM take her because it close to BM's house but far from our house. Somehow they start talking about the kid free weekend and how they will just switch it to this weekend instead of next weekend.
As soon as those words were out of his mouth I was pissed...He loves to re-plan our shit with SD and then tell me I'm controlling when I get pissed about it.
I calmly remind him that he is picking up Skids Thursday (something else I'm not happy about) because he is taking SD to orthodontist on Friday....I told him that does not constitute a kid free weekend to me....He agree and said he also didn't want to miss Father's Day with Skids. THEN WHY GIVE SD A CHOICE...Tell her NOOOOOO. It won't kill her to hear no.
FF to this morning on the way to work...SO is talking about SD and the orthodontist. Telling me how the guy he works with took his son for a consultation to such and such guy and maybe he should go there too. And he didn't want to pay for braces (because BM will help with ZERO percent of this bill) several different times for SD because she still has baby teeth...Fine....BUT, I had braces when I met SO, had them for the first two years we were together. I already told him that I went to a couple of places before settling on a certain Dr and told him he may want to get a consult that him. He was really kind, professional and didn't try to drown me with extra expenses like some places do. I went to the guy for 4 years. I know what I'm talking about. He completely blew me off. As soon as some guy from work that didn't even get braces on his kid, suggest something, he's all over it. SOOOO annoying. I'm all for getting a couple opinions and seeing which Dr he and SD are comfortable with, but damn why does the guy from works opinion mean so much more than mine.
This is the third weekend in one month that we have had Skid's an each day or more. I'm so ready to go away for work next month.
We had to stop telling BM
We had to stop telling BM when we had plans or ask for her to keep them. She screwed it up every single time she had advanced warning.
The weekend of my DDs wedding, 3 years ago. BM was told by me, by DSO, by the skids that I had family coming in and staying at my house, adults, no kids. The skids could come to the wedding but DSO would bring them back afterward (before we got too drunk). I'm at the venue and DSO arrives and first thing out of his mouth....BM is going to visit OSS in juvie tomorrow and we have to keep the kids. BM hadn't visited OSS in 6 months and decides to go that 1 Saturday we needed her.
I will never forget that stunt she pulled. I was so pissed I did call her out on doing that to us.