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Submitted by EvilAngel on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 10:48am

I try to stay out of it with DH and BM (mother of the SD13). She and I have never spoken beyond a message on FB and I would prefer to keep it that way. I don't know her, I don't want to know her. We are not enemies nor friends and that is the way I would like for it to stay. However...she messages DH all the time on FB asking for her CS check. She KNOWS when she is supposed to get it but it never fails, every other week she blows his phone up with: "Have you put the check in the mail?" "When did you say you put the check in the mail because I haven't gotten it yet." "Do you want to just write another check and I will tear up the other one when it gets here?" EVERY OTHER WEEK this happens. He usually mails it on Wednesday and she gets it by Friday. This week she has requested that he mail it early, as in today, because she doesn't get paid until the end of the month and it would REALLY help her out to get it before the weekend. Ummmm...no bitch. He gets paid on Friday. That's the whole reason it is in the mail for you to receive it on Friday. It's only been like this for 10 years now. That annoys the shit out of me. And her little smiley faces and shit she sends in her messages. Ugh....

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Submitted by EvilAngel on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 10:54am

Then she would just text or call. She is an annoying bitch. She doesn't annoy me THUS FAR because I haven't let her. But she is starting to...

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Submitted by NoWireCoatHanga... on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:12am

13, huh. So you have five more years tops? What is she going to do in five years when the well runs dry. The BM in my life is the same way except SO sets it to the State of FLorida disbursement unit and they give it to her when they want to give it to her and she still calls and texts him all the time. "where's the money Lebowski? I want my money Lebowski! Bunny says your good for it!"

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Submitted by Ninji on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:21am

LOL, My SO pays the same way and BM still text and calls asking him where her check is. I don't know Shitty (our term of endearment for BM) call the state.

The state also collects some type of fee for processing the checks? and Shitty called SO and bitched when that went up. Not our problem crazy lady. You should try to get CS for your older two children and stop trying to support you, all your kids and your newest boy toy off of SS and SD's CS.

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Submitted by EvilAngel on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:30am

I don't know what is so pressing that she needs it for. She lives in a trailer (no offense to anyone that lives in a trailer) that is probably 20 years old. It seriously had HOLES in the floor...so I know she doesn't have a house payment. Pretty sure her POS van is paid for too. She has a job, she's a hair dresser. I don't know how much they make but some of my friends are in that field and they do pretty well for themselves. It's probably to go out and party because that's all she ever does. She makes SD13 watch her youngest while she goes out and gets shitfaced.

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Submitted by EvilAngel on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:26am

She has a few years before the well runs dry...not from my DH but some other poor fool that knocked her up. She has a 6 and 7 year old with some other man that has to pay her. She's set for a while.

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Submitted by Ninji on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:36am

I told SO that BM screwed herself when she got fixed after SS. No more babies to collect money on. She'll be 50 when CS stops with no career. That's gonna suck.

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Submitted by NoWireCoatHanga... on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:13am

13, huh. So you have five more years tops? What is she going to do in five years when the well runs dry. The BM in my life is the same way except SO sets it to the State of FLorida disbursement unit and they give it to her when they want to give it to her and she still calls and texts him all the time. "where's the money Lebowski? I want my money Lebowski! Bunny says your good for it!"

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Submitted by EvilAngel on Mon, 04/20/2015 - 11:43am

He won't. The reason that he won't is because BM of Thunderfoot owes him ... I have no idea how much in back CS...he won't take her to court because she is in a psych ward. I don't give a shit where she is...she would be paying me my money! Of course being a nut job like she is, he probably wouldn't get anything anyway...